How Deep Is Your Love? Quiz

Instructions: Take the following 15-question quiz to find out how you score on the passion meter. Think of the person you love most passionately right now, and answer the items below as truthfully as possible. Rate your feelings on the scale from “Not at all true”, “A little true”, “Moderately true”, “Mostly true”, to “Definitely true”. If you are not in love right now, please think of the last person you loved passionately. All of your responses are confidential.

I am a year old / /
1. I would feel deep despair if my partner left me.

2. Sometimes I feel I can’t control my thoughts; they are obsessively on my partner.

3. I feel happy when I’m doing something to make my partner happy.

4. I would rather be with my partner than anyone else.

5. I’d get jealous if I thought my partner were falling in love with someone else.

6. I yearn to know all about my partner.

7. I want my partner physically, emotionally and mentally.

8. I have an endless appetite for affection from my partner.

9. For me, my partner is the perfect romantic partner.

10. I sense my body responding when my partner touches me.

11. My partner always seems to be on my mind.

12. I want my partner to know me — my thoughts, my fears, and my hopes.

13. I eagerly look for signs indicating my partner’s desire for me.

14. I possess a powerful attraction for my partner.

15. I get extremely depressed when things don’t go right in my relationship with my partner.



This quiz is based upon the short version of the Passionate Love Scale by Elaine Hatfield and Susan Sprecher. All rights reserved. Hatfield, E., & Sprecher, S. (1986). Measuring passionate love in intimate relationships. Journal of Adolescence, 9, 383-410.



Psych Central Research Team

Psych Central quizzes are developed by Dr. John M. Grohol, Psy.D. in conjunction with other psychological researchers, based upon scientific studies and/or the official diagnostic criteria for a disorder. Dr. Grohol is a published researcher, author, and mental health expert, and he currently sits on the scientific board of Computers in Human Behavior. Learn more about how we develop our psychological tests.

APA Reference
Research Team, P. (2020). How Deep Is Your Love? Quiz. Psych Central. Retrieved on December 3, 2020, from


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Last updated: 29 Jul 2020
Last reviewed: By John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on 29 Jul 2020
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