Quick Compassionate Love Test

This fun love test is used to help determine what kind of compassionate, loving relationship you are in. It provides a free, anonymous, instant score.

Instructions: Please answer the questions below, rating yourself on each of the criteria shown using the scale below each question. As you answer each question, choose the answer that best describes how you have felt and conducted yourself over the past 6 months.


I am a year old / /

1. I try to understand rather than judge my partner.

2. I often have tender feelings toward my partner when they seem to be in need.

3. I would rather suffer myself than see my partner suffer.

4. If my partner needs help, I would do almost anything I could to help him or her.

5. When I see my partner feeling sad, I feel a need to reach out to them.

6. I feel happy when I see that my partner is happy.




Adapted from Sprecher, S. & Fehr, B. from their article, Compassionate love for close others and humanity. For personal use only; other use may be prohibited by law.



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Last updated: 18 Dec 2017
Last reviewed: By John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on 18 Dec 2017
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