About Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT
Darlene Lancer is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and expert on relationships and codependency. She’s the author of Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You and Codependency for Dummies and six ebooks, including: 10 Steps to Self-Esteem, How To Speak Your Mind - Become Assertive and Set Limits, Dealing with a Narcissist: 8 Steps to Raise Self-Esteem and Set Boundaries with Difficult People, and Freedom from Guilt and Blame - Finding Self-Forgiveness, available on her website and Amazon. Ms. Lancer has counseled individuals and couples for 28 years and coaches internationally. She’s a sought-after speaker in media and at professional conferences. Her articles appear in professional journals and Internet mental health websites, including on her own, where you can get a free copy of “14 Tips for Letting Go.” Find her on Youtube.com, Soundcloud, Twitter @darlenelancer, and at www.Facebook.com/codependencyrecovery.
Articles by Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT:
Can a Narcissist Love?
Reality Isn’t Always What You Think! How Cognitive Distortions Harm Us
Confronting Narcissistic Abuse
Do I Have to Lose Me to Love You?
Discovering Your True Self — Who You Really Are
5 Mistakes to Never Make with an Abuser
The Psychology of Romantic Love
5 Red Flags and Blind Spots in Dating a Narcissist
Signs of Gaslighting and the Cost
Male Sexual Shame and Objectification of Women
Narcissus and Echo: The Myth and Tragedy of Relationships with Narcissists
When a Narcissist Is Also Codependent
The Trauma of Children of Addicts and Alcoholics
4 Self-Care Techniques that Can Change Your Life
6 Steps to Being Authentic
Marriage After Sobriety
What Triggers You?
Codependency is Based on Fake Facts
Codependency Causes Anger and Resentment: 8 Tips on Anger Management
Relationship Killers: Anger and Resentment
The Cost of Secrets and Lies
Dreams: Your Inner Guidance
Codependency Addiction: Stages of Disease and Recovery
Are You Dealing with a Sociopath or a Narcissist?
The Challenge of Forgiveness
Codependency, Addiction, and Emptiness
Sons of Narcissistic Fathers
Trauma and Codependency
5 Tips on How to Keep New Year’s Resolutions
Co-Dependency: Put the “I” in Independence
Symptoms of Codependency
Dealing with a Passive-Aggressive Partner
How to Raise Emotionally Healthy Children
Picking up the Pieces After the Betrayal of Cheating
Donald Trump and the Narcissistic Illusion of Grandiosity
Chronic Depression and Codependency
The Dark Side of Loneliness
Do You Love a Narcissist?
Recovery from Codependency
Recovery Using the 12 Steps
Perfectionism’s Trap: Matthew McConaughey’s Impossible Chase
Substance Abuse: The Power of Acceptance
Obsessions and Addiction
Are You a People-Pleaser?
Power, Control & Codependency
How to Keep New Year’s Resolutions: 5 Tips
Understanding & Coping with the Christmas Blues
Affirm Your True, Authentic Self
Low Self-Esteem is Learned
Are You an Enabler?