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14 Powerful Questions to Find Happiness Workbook

light-bulb-image1What’s the first question exchanged when we meet someone new? You guessed it: “So… What do you do?”

In our culture, what you do for a living is inextricably tied to society’s perception of your worth. A stable job with a good salary is highly regarded, but we often look less lovingly upon the self-trained artist or entrepreneur who gives blood, sweat, and tears to make their vision possible.

Why is this? Is the number on your paycheck the true meaning of success?

Instead of focusing on money or power, let’s focus on what’s fundamental: happiness and a sense of purpose. These two elements drive us to do more than status or material gain.

People don’t succeed by migrating to a particular industry or job. They thrive by getting curious about answering questions about who they really are and doing work they truly love. In doing so, they unleash unthinkable creative and productive energy. To truly be happy, our work must have meaning.

This is not a new idea. For decades, psychologists have known that humans are more motivated by personally meaningful goals than by external rewards such as money or status. Put simply: When you love what you do, it shows. You’re lit up by your passion, you put in extra effort, you’re a source of great ideas. Others envy your confidence.

Remember that 95 percent of the time, finding oneself doesn’t happen in one major epiphany. Clarity comes in fits and spurts. Passion evolves.

All of us are born with innate strengths and aptitudes. Nurture your interests and have patience when finding ways to exercise passion for something — even if you don’t see a way to make money from it yet. Be persistent and remain open to the possibilities.

The first step is to explore your whims — those little sparks of interest you’re not sure what to make of yet. To figure out what you find meaningful and inspiring in your life, it can help to harness the power of provocative inquiry.

Most of us go through life on autopilot, never questioning our assumptions, exploring our likes and dislikes, or spending time getting honest about what we really want. The 14 questions in this printable workbook are specifically designed to provoke creative thinking, help you get in touch with the roots of your personal preferences and natural drives, and to help you gain the clarity you need to get unstuck and move forward.

If you’re ready to stop living life on autopilot you can download the “14 Powerful Questions for a Happy Life” workbook by clicking here.

14 Powerful Questions to Find Happiness Workbook


Melody Wilding, LMSW

Melody Wilding, LMSW is a performance coach, licensed social worker, and has a Masters from Columbia. She helps established and rising managers and executives advance in their careers. Her clients work at companies like Google, Facebook, LinkedIn, HP, and Deloitte. She also helps entrepreneurs take bold steps to grow their businesses. Melody has helped over 10,000 smart, self-aware people like you. Her coaching gives you actionable strategies to reach your goals. You get concrete steps to overcome the complex struggles of success. Melody loves arming ambitious people with tools and tactics to boost their confidence. She can teach you skills for assertiveness and influence. Her specialties include better managing your emotions at work. Melody also teaches Human Behavior at CUNY Hunter College in NYC. She writes about psychology and careers for Inc., Forbes, Fast Company, and more. Click here and grab the FREE COURSE to go from insecure to unstoppable confidence 5 DAYS TO FREEDOM FROM SELF-DOUBT..


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Wilding, M. (2018). 14 Powerful Questions to Find Happiness Workbook. Psych Central. Retrieved on November 14, 2019, from https://psychcentral.com/blog/14-powerful-questions-to-find-happiness-workbook/
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Last updated: 8 Jul 2018
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