Home » News » Stress Management » Stress Can Motivate Us to Give and Receive Help

Stress Can Motivate Us to Give and Receive Help

Even though stress can feel pretty awful, a new study suggests that it can lead to a surprising social benefit.

The findings, published in the journal Stress & Health, show that experiencing stress makes people both more likely to give and receive emotional support from another person. This was true on the day they experienced the stressor as well as the following day.

Dr. David Almeida, professor of human development and family studies at Pennsylvania State University, said the results suggest that while stress can certainly lead to negative health outcomes, there are potential benefits, as well.

“Our findings suggest that just because we have a bad day, that doesn’t mean it has to be completely unhealthy,” Almeida said. “If stress can actually connect us with other people, which I think is absolutely vital to the human experience, I think that’s a benefit. Stress could potentially help people deal with negative situations by driving them to be with other people.”

Almeida said that while the negative effects of stress — such as heart disease, compromised immune function and depressive symptoms — are well-documented, the team was curious if there were potential benefits to stress, such as emotional support.

“Looking at the current research, I realized that a lot of studies looked at how emotional support is beneficial to other health outcomes, but not many looked at the determinants of social support,” said Hye Won Chai, a Penn State graduate student in health and human development. “We thought that stress could be a facilitator in these interpersonal exchanges.”

For the study, the researchers interviewed 1,622 participants every night for eight nights. They asked the participants about their stressors and whether they gave or received emotional support on that day. Stressors included arguments, stressful events at work or school, and stressful events at home.

The results show that, on average, participants were more than twice as likely to either give or receive emotional support on days they experienced a stressor. Additionally, they were 26 percent more likely to give or receive support the following day. The researchers said that while this effect, on average, was found across the participants, it differed slightly between men and women.

“Women tended to engage in more giving and receiving emotional support than men,” Chai said. “This supports previous findings that women tend to seek more emotional support from other people when they’re stressed. In our study, men were also more likely to engage in emotional support on days they were stressed, but to a lesser extent than women.”

The researchers said they were surprised that stress was linked to people not just receiving emotional support, but giving it, as well. Almeida said he initially thought that giving emotional support was the stressor itself, but he reconsidered when they discovered the effect lasted through the next day.

“We saw that someone experiencing a stressor today actually predicted them giving emotional support the next day,” Almeida said. “This made me think that it’s actually possible that stress helps to drive you to other people and allows it to be ok to talk about problems — your problems, my problems.”

Almeida says the findings can help practitioners enhance and design better interventions for targeting stress.

“The findings suggest that an intervention geared toward social interaction rather than individual may be very beneficial,” Almeida said. “If we’re naturally being drawn toward other people when we’re stressed to get help, then interventions may benefit by incorporating the people around us.”

Source: Penn State


Stress Can Motivate Us to Give and Receive Help

Traci Pedersen

Traci Pedersen is a professional writer with over a decade of experience. Her work consists of writing for both print and online publishers in a variety of genres including science chapter books, college and career articles, and elementary school curriculum.

APA Reference
Pedersen, T. (2020). Stress Can Motivate Us to Give and Receive Help. Psych Central. Retrieved on September 26, 2020, from
Scientifically Reviewed
Last updated: 25 Feb 2020 (Originally: 25 Feb 2020)
Last reviewed: By a member of our scientific advisory board on 25 Feb 2020
Published on Psych All rights reserved.