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Good Relationship With Mom Can Deter Teens From Abusive Relationships

A loving bond with their mothers may help prevent teenagers from being in an abusive relationship later in life, according to a new study.

The findings hold true even if the mother’s own marriage is contentious, according to researchers at the University at Buffalo in New York.

Previous research has found that teens who are exposed to marital conflict at a young age are at an increased risk to experience abuse in their romantic relationships.

However, the new study discovered that the child’s relationship with their mother serves as a buffer by potentially promoting the teen’s feelings of self-worth, said Jennifer Livingston, Ph.D., lead investigator and associate professor in the UB School of Nursing.

“Children form internal working models about themselves and others based on the quality of their relationship with their parents,” she said. “If the primary caretaker is abusive or inconsistent, children learn to view themselves as unlovable and others as hostile and untrustworthy.

“But positive parenting behaviors characterized by acceptance and warmth help children form positive internal working models of themselves as lovable and worthy of respect.”

The results could help in the development of interventions that prevent teens from experiencing physical, emotional, or sexual relationship abuse, according to the researchers. More than 30 percent of adolescents are the victim of some type of abuse by a romantic partner, according to Livingston, who is also a faculty member in the UB Clinical and Research Institute on Addictions (CRIA).

The new study, published in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence, surveyed more than 140 adolescents whose parents were married or cohabitating at the time of their birth.

The families are part of an ongoing study on the development of children of alcoholic parents. Half of the participants had at least one parent, most often the father, with an alcohol problem. The researchers examined the group due to the connection between alcoholism in fathers and family dysfunction, they explained.

“Although parental alcoholism has not been directly linked to teen dating violence, children growing up in alcoholic families experience greater exposure to marital conflict and harsh parenting in comparison to children from non-alcoholic families,” said Livingston.

“Clearly not all children from alcoholic families are involved in dating violence, suggesting that there are protective factors at play as well. These protective factors need to be identified to advance prevention efforts.”

The teens completed surveys in eighth grade and during their junior or senior year of high school, reporting on their exposure to conflict between their parents, perception of their relationship with their mother, and any involvement in dating violence.

The study found that children who experienced above-average levels of positive parenting behaviors from their mother in eighth grade were less likely to be involved in dating violence as a teenager, even when there were high levels of conflict in their parents’ marriage.

Lower levels of warmth, responsiveness, and support by the mother did not weaken the harmful effects of marital conflict on her children, the researchers noted.

“The joint influence of parent-to-parent conflict and maternal-child interactions suggests the need for a multipronged approach to intervention that promotes communication and conflict resolution in the marriage and positive parenting behavior with the children,” Livingston said.

“Parents who are better able to communicate and resolve disagreements will have less conflict in the household and can model appropriate conflict resolution skills to their children. The ability to successfully resolve conflicts should also reduce stress and enable parents to be more responsive to their child’s needs.”

Source: University at Buffalo

Good Relationship With Mom Can Deter Teens From Abusive Relationships

Janice Wood

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Wood, J. (2019). Good Relationship With Mom Can Deter Teens From Abusive Relationships. Psych Central. Retrieved on November 22, 2019, from https://psychcentral.com/news/2019/11/02/good-relationship-with-mom-can-deter-teens-from-abusive-relationships/151521.html
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