Home » News » Parenting » Interparental Aggression Often Co-Occurs With Aggression Toward Kids
Interparental Aggression Often Co-Occurs With Aggression Toward Kids

Interparental Aggression Often Co-Occurs With Aggression Toward Kids

Parents who engage in psychologically or physically aggressive arguments tend to be aggressive with their children as well, according to a new study at Penn State.

The findings, published in the Journal of Family Psychology, show that this “spillover” of aggression toward children causes kids to show greater fear during future episodes of interparental aggression, regardless of the severity of those future incidents, compared to kids who do not experience this spillover effect.

“Our study is the first to examine how aggression toward a child and aggression toward a parenting partner unfold at the same time,” said Amy Marshall, associate professor of psychology.

The study also found that spillover-exposed children are more likely to engage in their parents’ more severe aggressive conflicts by trying to solve the problem or by making peace between their parents than non-spillover-exposed children.

“Our findings suggest that children may fear for their own safety because of their history of having had aggression directed toward them during incidents of interparental aggression,” said Marshall.

“Previously, researchers thought that kids reacted negatively to interparental violence because it threatened their security within the family unit. For example, it was assumed that children were afraid that their parents would divorce. This study shows that kids may also be afraid of what might happen directly to them.”

The researchers conducted four telephone interviews with 203 parents (109 women and 94 men) from 111 heterosexual couples whose first-born child was 2 to 3 years old at the start of the study. At the end of each interview, parents were provided individualized motivation, assistance and resources for preventing future acts of aggression.

Based on their responses, the researchers analyzed the occurrence, unfolding, and context of episodes of psychological and physical family aggression — both interparental and parent-child aggression.

The study defined aggression as non-playful behaviors that are threatening or forceful in nature. Physical aggression included behaviors such as pinching, slapping, hitting and kicking, whereas psychological aggression included behaviors such as insulting, screaming and threatening harm.

Across all participants, the researchers selected 463 incidents of relatively more severe interparental aggression reported by 73 families. They found that children were present during 163 of these incidents. Of these 163 incidents, 40 included parent-child aggression.

This was not the full extent of parent-child aggression recorded by the researchers, however. The findings revealed that parent-child aggression occurred much more frequently on its own than it did in association with interparental aggression.

“We know that parents who perpetrate aggression toward each other are also very likely to perpetrate aggression toward their children,” said Marshall. “But until now, we didn’t know how that happens — if it happens on different days for different reasons, or if it happens at the same point in time. This is the first study to look at how those two types of aggression happen at the same point in time.”

According to Mark Feinberg, research professor of health and human development with the Edna Bennett Pierce Prevention Research Center, the research can be used to plan future studies looking at family aggression in higher risk samples and ultimately to develop preventive interventions to address family profiles of aggression.

“Our existing public health programs so far are not very good at preventing the occurrence of family violence, which is more widespread in society than we usually assume,” said Feinberg.

“One reason is that, until now, we have had no way of examining how these aggressive incidents unfold. With this new interview method, we can unpack the different ways aggressive incidents play out and develop tailored approaches for different patterns of aggression.”

Source: Penn State

Interparental Aggression Often Co-Occurs With Aggression Toward Kids

Traci Pedersen

Traci Pedersen is a professional writer with over a decade of experience. Her work consists of writing for both print and online publishers in a variety of genres including science chapter books, college and career articles, and elementary school curriculum.

APA Reference
Pedersen, T. (2019). Interparental Aggression Often Co-Occurs With Aggression Toward Kids. Psych Central. Retrieved on November 25, 2020, from
Scientifically Reviewed
Last updated: 17 Apr 2019 (Originally: 18 Apr 2019)
Last reviewed: By a member of our scientific advisory board on 17 Apr 2019
Published on Psych All rights reserved.