Holiday Events, Drinking Leave Many Unprepared for ‘Parenting Hangovers’
With the holiday season in full swing, parents are busy planning for childcare and transportation ahead of holiday gatherings.
But according to a new poll, one in four parents don’t prepare for potential “parenting hangovers.”
A quarter of parents who drink alcohol on special occasions do not think about limiting how much they drink or whether they’ll be able to take care of their children the next day, according to the C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital National Poll on Children’s Health at the University of Michigan.
The nationally representative report is based on responses from 1,170 parents with at least one child ages 0-9 years.
Three in 10 parents (29 percent) also said they know of an adult who may have caused an unsafe situation for their child due to drinking alcohol at a special celebration. These parents were most concerned that the other adult was too impaired or hung over to supervise their child (61 percent) or to handle a possible emergency (48 percent), according to the poll’s findings.
Less common were concerns that an adult drove with a child while impaired (37 percent), got violent or out of control in front of the child (28 percent), or injured the child (7 percent).
Another 1 in 12 parents (8 percent) admitted to a prior situation where they may have been too impaired from alcohol to take care of their parenting responsibilities.
About the same proportion of mothers and fathers acknowledged a prior lapse in judgment related to alcohol, according to the poll.
“Most parents planning to drink alcoholic beverages on a night out arrange for a designated driver and childcare for the event itself,” said poll co-director Sarah Clark. “Fewer parents may consider how their alcohol consumption could impact parenting responsibilities to their young children the next day.”
“The amount of alcohol consumed can affect parenting the next day,” she continues. “A parent passed out on the couch will not be effective in recognizing and reacting to the everyday safety risks that occur with children.”
Most parents reported drinking alcoholic beverages during special events, either often (27 percent), sometimes (36 percent), or rarely (17 percent). Among those, 73 percent said they were very likely to make plans in advance for someone to watch their child during the event, and 68 percent were very likely to plan for safe transportation.
However, just 47 percent were very likely to think in advance about how much they will drink, and 64 percent said they were very likely to make plans for someone to take care of their child the day after the event.
One particularly interesting finding: Parents who said they drink rarely were less likely to plan in advance for childcare and transportation the night of the special event and childcare responsibilities the following day compared to parents who drink sometimes or often, Clark pointed out.
However, even rare instances of celebrating with alcohol can have serious consequences for children, Clark said.
Parents may prevent overindulging by alternating alcoholic drinks with non-alcoholic drinks, Clark said. But if they aren’t sure whether their alcohol consumption may impair parenting abilities, it’s better to be safe than sorry.
“If alcohol use may potentially impact their ability to take care of their children the following day, parents may also consider childcare arrangements,” she said . “Having children stay the night at a relative’s home or asking a grandparent to stay overnight are options to ensure young children are in a safe and supervised environment.”
Wood, J. (2018). Holiday Events, Drinking Leave Many Unprepared for ‘Parenting Hangovers’. Psych Central. Retrieved on September 20, 2020, from https://psychcentral.com/news/2018/12/16/holiday-events-drinking-leave-many-unprepared-for-parenting-hangovers/141193.html