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Share Secrets of Success to Make Good First Impression

Share Secrets of Success to Make Good First Impression

New research suggests that when people need to make a good impression on dates or in job interviews, they should concentrate on communicating the hard work and effort behind their success.

University of London investigators from the Cass Business School investigated how people attribute their success on dates and job interviews, and whether these attributions were successful with their audiences.

Dr. Janina Steinmetz found that success alone may not be enough to make a positive impression. Instead, she suggests that people should ensure they talk about the struggle behind their story to appear more likable.

The study appears in the journal Basic and Applied Social Psychology.

Steinmetz conducted three experiments with participants from the United States and the Netherlands, with people from all age ranges (18-75) and with an even gender balance between male and female.

Two of the experiments emulated job interviews (using working adults) and one emulated a date (using students). Participants were asked to imagine themselves in the role of the impression manager (interviewee or “sharer on a date) or the receiver (interviewer or “listener on a date).

The “impression manager” was asked to speak about themselves in in a positive way and feedback was given by the receiver detailing what they wanted to hear more about:┬áthe talent and success, or the hard work and effort behind it.

All three experiments found the impression managers overemphasized their talents and successes and did not share the effort and hard work behind them, something that the receivers wanted to hear about.

Steinmetz said it was clear that communicating success and talent in job interviews or on dates is important but it is just as important to tell the story of the hard work and effort behind it to create a warmer, positive, more relatable first impression.

“A success story isn’t complete without the hard work and explanation of why we were successful. Did the success come easy, thanks to one’s talents, or was it attained through hard work?

“Both of these attributions can be part of successful self-promotion, but my research shows that emphasizing effort is more likely to garner a positive impression and people really want to know the story behind your success.

“For example, if you’re on a date and talking about a marathon that you recently ran, perhaps talk about all the training that helped you to cross the finish line. Or, if you’re in a job interview and are talking about a successful project that you led to completion, include a few details about the challenges along the way, and how you overcame them.”

Source: City University London

Share Secrets of Success to Make Good First Impression

Rick Nauert PhD

Rick Nauert, PhDDr. Rick Nauert has over 25 years experience in clinical, administrative and academic healthcare. He is currently an associate professor for Rocky Mountain University of Health Professionals doctoral program in health promotion and wellness. Dr. Nauert began his career as a clinical physical therapist and served as a regional manager for a publicly traded multidisciplinary rehabilitation agency for 12 years. He has masters degrees in health-fitness management and healthcare administration and a doctoral degree from The University of Texas at Austin focused on health care informatics, health administration, health education and health policy. His research efforts included the area of telehealth with a specialty in disease management.

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Nauert PhD, R. (2018). Share Secrets of Success to Make Good First Impression. Psych Central. Retrieved on November 29, 2020, from
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Last updated: 2 Dec 2018 (Originally: 2 Dec 2018)
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