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Laughter Can Impact Romantic Happiness & Sexuality

Laughter Can Impact Romantic Happiness & Sexuality

German researchers have found that laughter, whether it is shared or is directed at the significant other, has an important impact on relationship happiness.

If partners handle laughter or being laughed at in a similar way, they tend to be quite content with their relationship. People who are afraid of being laughed at, on the other hand, are often less happy in their relationship. This experience also affects their partner and their sexuality, according to psychologists from Martin Luther University Halle-Wittenberg (MLU).

The study appears in the Journal of Research in Personality.

“Earlier studies have shown that people are looking for a partner with a sense of humor and who enjoys a laugh,” said psychologist Professor René Proyer from MLU, who conducted the new study together with Kay Brauer.

How people react to being laughed at differs widely: some people are afraid of being laughed at. “They tend to interpret the laughter as something negative or derogative,” Proyer said.

However, others enjoy being the center of attention and intentionally provoke situations that make others laugh about them. For many people, being laughed at is an expression of appreciation.

Another characteristic is enjoying laughing about others and intentionally making them the butt of jokes. “These three characteristics are personality traits that can occur at the same time, to varying degrees and in different combinations. They can range, for example, from making harmless jokes to ridiculing others.

“All of these characteristics are normal, up to a certain point — including being afraid of being laughed at,” Proyer said.

For the current study, the psychologists from MLU conducted online interviews with 154 heterosexual couples. The participants separately answered questions about their relationship, for example about how satisfied the partners were with their relationship overall, whether the couple often argued and how satisfied both partners were with their sex life.

The researchers also investigated how the study participants handle being laughed at and whether they like to laugh at others.

For the subsequent analysis, the researchers first compared the statements made by each person: “We found that partners are often alike with regard to their individual characteristics and also their profiles,” said Brauer. Indeed, if couples have similar thoughts about laughter, they are usually more content in their relationship than others.

The researchers observed that provoking others to laugh at you primarily has positive effects: “Women reported more often that they tended to be satisfied with their relationship and felt more attracted to their partner. They and their partners also tended to be equally satisfied with their sex life,” Brauer said.

Being afraid of being laughed at, on the other hand, tended to have negative effects: people who have this fear are less content in their relationship and also tend to mistrust their partner. This also has consequences for the partner: Men said more frequently that they did not really feel satisfied with their sex life if their partner was afraid of being laughed at.

The psychologists did not find this kind of interdependence with regard to relationship contentment when it came to people who like to ridicule others. However, the couples tended to argue more often. “That is hardly surprising, considering that these people often go too far and make derisive comments which can then lead to an argument,” says Brauer.

Both researchers state that handling laughter and being laughed at in a similar way alone does not suffice to assess whether a relationship is a “good” one. Of course, there is more to a successful relationship in which partners experience happiness.

Source: Martin Luther University

Laughter Can Impact Romantic Happiness & Sexuality

Rick Nauert PhD

Rick Nauert, PhDDr. Rick Nauert has over 25 years experience in clinical, administrative and academic healthcare. He is currently an associate professor for Rocky Mountain University of Health Professionals doctoral program in health promotion and wellness. Dr. Nauert began his career as a clinical physical therapist and served as a regional manager for a publicly traded multidisciplinary rehabilitation agency for 12 years. He has masters degrees in health-fitness management and healthcare administration and a doctoral degree from The University of Texas at Austin focused on health care informatics, health administration, health education and health policy. His research efforts included the area of telehealth with a specialty in disease management.

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Nauert PhD, R. (2018). Laughter Can Impact Romantic Happiness & Sexuality. Psych Central. Retrieved on November 17, 2018, from https://psychcentral.com/news/2018/10/17/laughter-can-impact-romantic-happiness-sexuality/139562.html

 

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