Fear of Relationship Ending May Contribute to Breakup
New research explores whether the fear of a relationship ending may be a self-fulfilling prophecy. Can the fear of a relationship ending actually lessen love and cause a breakup?
In the study, Drs. Simona Sciara and Giuseppe Pantaleo of the Vita-Salute San Raffaele University in Italy found that “perceived risk“ can greatly influence the outcome of a romantic relationship. That is, fear of relationship failure can lead to less commitment and then to actual relationship dissolution.
Their findings complement what is already known about how obstacles to a romantic relationship affect attraction and commitment towards a partner.
The study appears in the journal Motivation and Emotion.
For the investigation, participants provided basic information about themselves and the state and dynamics of their relationship. The researchers then manipulated the participants’ perception that their relationship could end.
Manipulation techniques included providing statistics about the failure of relationships to one group, and giving false feedback to some participants about the chances of their romantic affiliations ending. Participants were then asked how committed they were to their relationship, and how they felt towards their partner.
Sciara and Pantaleo found that participants’ romantic feelings and levels of commitment towards their partners were more intense when no mention was made about the possibility that their relationships could end.
Romance and commitment diminished when they heard that there could be either a high or low risk of a break-up. When participants were told that there was only a moderate chance the relationship would end, commitment was stronger.
The researchers also established that the influence of such manipulated risk on romantic commitment was fully mediated by feelings of romantic affect. That is, “when faced with a ‘too high’ risk of ending the relationship, participants clearly reduced the intensity of their positive feelings towards the romantic partner,” Sciara said.
Pantaleo believes it is important for psychologists, clinicians and counselors to understand the causal role that perceived risk plays in the outcomes of their clients’ romantic relationships.
“Reduced relationship commitment, for instance, leads to dissolution considerations and, thereby, to actual relationship breakup. Relationship breakup, in turn, plays a critical role in the onset of depression, psychological distress, and reduced life satisfaction,” Pantaleo said.
Nauert PhD, R. (2018). Fear of Relationship Ending May Contribute to Breakup. Psych Central. Retrieved on July 11, 2020, from https://psychcentral.com/news/2017/11/29/fear-of-relationship-break-up-may-contribute-to-break-up/129316.html