A new study has found that when parents acknowledge the perspectives of their adolescent children and encourage them to express themselves, the kids have a stronger sense of self-worth, intrinsic motivation, and engagement, and also have less depression.
The study, which looked at parenting in two very different cultures — Ghana and the United States — also found that having the latitude to make decisions appears to function differently in the two cultures, with positive outcomes for kids in the United States but not in Ghana.
“A parenting approach that allows teens to feel they are being heard has been linked to youths being happier, more self-motivated, and more confident,” said Kristine N. Marbell-Pierre, head of guidance and counseling at Ghana International School, who was at Clark University when she led the study.
“This type of parenting is considered western in its approach and there have been questions about its benefit in nonwestern, more hierarchical cultures that place greater emphasis on respect for and obedience to elders by children and youths. In our study, helping adolescents feel that their perspective mattered was helpful to youths — in both Ghana and the United States — while the role of decision making and choice differed between the two cultures.”
For the study, the researchers examined responses to questionnaires filled out by 401 teens in seventh and eighth grades; 245 were from the United States and 156 were from Ghana.
The teens answered questions about the extent to which their parents acknowledged their point of view and allowed them to make decisions, have choices, and express their opinions.
Questionnaires also assessed the extent to which adolescents perceived their parents as controlling their behavior, as well as adolescents’ academic motivation, sense of self-worth, level of depression, and perception of themselves as independent from their parents or as a unit with their parents.
The study found that parenting approaches that encouraged students to express themselves and acknowledged their points of view boosted self-motivation, engagement in school, and self-worth, and decreased their levels of depression in both countries.
However, allowing adolescents to make decisions and have choices was associated with positive outcomes only in the United States, according to the study’s findings.
This difference in the effects of who makes decisions and of choice was in part due to how adolescents viewed themselves, the researchers discovered. Those who saw themselves as independent felt that being allowed to make decisions supported their autonomy, while this was not the case for teens who perceived themselves as more a part of the family unit.
“Our study resolves conflicting findings from previous studies,” said Wendy Grolnick, professor of psychology at Clark University, who coauthored the study. “It suggests that supporting adolescents’ sense of agency is universally beneficial, but how this support is given may not necessarily look the same across cultures.”
The researchers caution that while there are cultural differences between Ghana and the United States with respect to factors such as the extent to which autonomy is fostered in youths, there are also important variations across families within each culture.
The study was published in the journal Child Development.