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Kids of Single Moms Do Well

Kids of Single Moms Seem To Do Well

A new study from the UK finds that children growing up with single mothers generally adjust well and develop normally. And though these kids have positive feelings about their family life, they do ask questions about the absence of a father in their families.

The topic is germane as the number of children born to single women is increasing, partly as a result of social and legislative changes (in most jurisdictions) in the rights to parenthood.

Technology has been readily able to meet this rising demand through donor insemination and even IVF, but little is known about how children think, feel, and fare growing up in the families formed by single women.

As such, the new study by researchers at the University of Cambridge helps to allay some fears but also suggest that more information is needed.

Significantly, lead researcher Dr. Sophis Zadeh discovered that children begin to ask questions “at the age at which children begin to understand their family circumstances, but they continue to function well.”

The study was an evaluation of 51 solo mother families who were compared (both quantitatively and qualitatively) with 52 heterosexual two-parent families with at least one donor-conceived child aged four to nine years.

The participating families were matched in terms of the age and gender of the target child, and on demographic factors including the mother’s educational level.

The study, said Zadeh, is the first to examine child adjustment and children’s perspectives in solo mother families at an age at which children are old enough to understand their family circumstances and what it means to grow up without a father, and the only study to assess children’s own reports about their social and family experiences.

Mothers in both groups answered standardized questionnaires of child adjustment and parenting stress. In addition, the solo mothers completed an interview which asked about their children’s feelings about a father, and whether or not this was a topic of family discussion.

A total of 47 children within these solo mother families agreed to be interviewed. They were asked about family life and friendships.

Researchers discovered there was no significant difference between the two family types when assessed for child adjustment according to a standardized questionnaire.

However, higher levels of financial difficulties within the solo mother families, and higher levels of parenting stress, were each associated with higher levels of child adjustment problems.

Moreover, mothers mostly reported that their children had neutral (39 percent) or mixed (28 percent) feelings about the absence of a father, although qualitative analysis of mothers’ reports showed that conversations about fathers were a prominent feature of family life.

As for the children themselves, most (89 percent) who answered a question about changing their family circumstances either expressed a desire for just trivial changes (38 percent) or no change (51 percent).

Children mostly (59 percent) reported high (19 percent) or very high (40 percent) levels of enjoyment of school. All reported having at least one friend, and most (51 percent) named five or more friends. The majority (63 percent) had not been teased at school, or had experienced only trivial teasing (34 percent).

“Between the ages of four and nine, donor-conceived children in solo mother families generally seem to be doing well,” said Dr Zadeh.

“However, we don’t yet know how these children will fare over time, or what they will think and feel about being donor-conceived and/or growing up without a father in the home as they grow older.

“In general, our findings seem to suggest that what matters most for children’s outcomes in solo mother families is not the absence of a father, nor donor conception, but the quality of parenting, and positive parent-child relationships.

These findings therefore echo much of what we already know about the determinants of children’s psychological adjustment in other family types.”

Source: European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology/EurekAlert

Kids of Single Moms Seem To Do Well

Rick Nauert PhD

Rick Nauert, PhDDr. Rick Nauert has over 25 years experience in clinical, administrative and academic healthcare. He is currently an associate professor for Rocky Mountain University of Health Professionals doctoral program in health promotion and wellness. Dr. Nauert began his career as a clinical physical therapist and served as a regional manager for a publicly traded multidisciplinary rehabilitation agency for 12 years. He has masters degrees in health-fitness management and healthcare administration and a doctoral degree from The University of Texas at Austin focused on health care informatics, health administration, health education and health policy. His research efforts included the area of telehealth with a specialty in disease management.

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Nauert PhD, R. (2018). Kids of Single Moms Seem To Do Well. Psych Central. Retrieved on September 26, 2020, from
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Last updated: 8 Aug 2018 (Originally: 5 Jul 2016)
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