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Kids Learn Benefit of Taking Turns by Age 5

Kids Learn Benefit of Taking Turns by Age 5

New research shows it takes children until they are about five years old to learn to take turns with others — a social skill apparently beyond the capability of chimpanzees.

The findings show that five year-olds adopted a turn-taking strategy more effectively than their younger counterparts, suggesting that the skill emerges as children’s cognitive abilities mature.

The research appears in the journal Psychological Science.

“Although chimpanzees and young children may be able to engage in reciprocal interactions that are driven by past events — ‘She was nice to me, so I will be nice to her now’ — this study shows that they are not capable of prospective turn-taking and understanding the long-term benefits of taking turns,” said lead researcher Dr. Alicia Melis of Warwick Business School in the UK.

“This suggests that more complex planning and reasoning skills are necessary for turn-taking.”

Researchers believe the ability to take turns to ensure future benefits is a fundamental and strategic social behavior that expands the range of cooperative behaviors humans exhibit.

According to Melis, it allows individuals to cooperate even when they have conflicting interests or would otherwise compete with each other, such as when parents take turns picking children up at school or when drivers take turns merging into a single lane on the highway.

To investigate children’s and chimpanzees’ turn-taking abilities, Melis and colleagues devised an experiment involving rewards placed on specially designed trays.

Each pair of participants had to work together to pull the trays so that a reward — stickers for children, fruit for chimpanzees — would be reachable. Importantly, pulling one tray resulted in losing the reward on the other tray.

The researchers tested a total of 96 preschoolers, half of whom were 3.5 years old and half of whom were five years old. Each age-matched pair completed 24 turn-taking trials. They also tested 12 chimpanzees, each of whom completed 48 trials with one partner and 48 trials with another partner.

The results showed that the five year-old children managed to access a reward on 99.5 percent of the trials, while the 3.5 year-olds were successful on only 62.3 percent of the trials. The five year-olds also took turns more often than the 3.5 year-olds and their turn-taking increased as they completed more trials.

The data showed that although some of the younger pairs eventually developed a turn-taking strategy, it took them awhile to do so — some of the 3.5 year-olds never resolved their conflict of interest.

“Although young children are encouraged to take turns across many different situations, including in interactions with adults and when sharing resources with other children, our findings show that it was only from age five when the children were able to spontaneously take turns to solve a conflict of interests,” Melis said.

The chimpanzee pairs had a success rate similar to that of the younger children, accessing a reward about 64 percent of the time. All of the chimpanzee pairs were able to cooperate for at least several trials in a row, but none of the pairs adopted a consistent turn-taking strategy.

These findings suggest that foregoing an immediate benefit to accommodate the desires of another individual is a cooperative strategy that may develop over time in humans but not in chimpanzees.

“The fact that these skills in humans do not develop until age five suggests that turn-taking requires sophisticated cognitive skills that may be lacking in chimpanzees,” the researchers write in conclusion.

Additional investigation will address the specific cognitive components underlying turn-taking. Researchers hope to break out the relative importance of skills like the ability to think ahead and imagine future interactions, the ability to plan, and the ability to reason about fairness and mutual gain.

Source: Association for Psychological Science

Kids Learn Benefit of Taking Turns by Age 5

Rick Nauert PhD

Rick Nauert, PhDDr. Rick Nauert has over 25 years experience in clinical, administrative and academic healthcare. He is currently an associate professor for Rocky Mountain University of Health Professionals doctoral program in health promotion and wellness. Dr. Nauert began his career as a clinical physical therapist and served as a regional manager for a publicly traded multidisciplinary rehabilitation agency for 12 years. He has masters degrees in health-fitness management and healthcare administration and a doctoral degree from The University of Texas at Austin focused on health care informatics, health administration, health education and health policy. His research efforts included the area of telehealth with a specialty in disease management.

APA Reference
Nauert PhD, R. (2018). Kids Learn Benefit of Taking Turns by Age 5. Psych Central. Retrieved on September 29, 2020, from
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