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Fear of Rejection Stresses Overweight Women

Fear of Rejection Stresses Overweight Women

New research suggests that for heavier women the mere anticipation of being rejected because of weight can lead to detrimental health effects.

University of California, Santa Barbara investigators discovered that worries about rejection can lead to loss of self-esteem and subsequent body devaluation. They found that this can lead to stress and negative health consequences among heavier women.

Researchers give the example of a speed-dating environment. Imagine yourself in a situation where you have five minutes to impress, or not, the person across the table from you. It’s enough to unnerve even the most confident individuals. But for heavier women, the effects are even worse.

In the new study, two University of California, Santa Barbara psychologists set out to examine whether and how the anticipation of rejection — versus the actual experience of it — impacts an individual’s emotional well-being.

Drs. Alison Blodorn and Brenda Major devised a study that measured the effects of anticipated rejection caused by weight-stigmatizing situations, like dating. The results, they discovered, depended on participants’ weight and gender.

The findings appear in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology.

“We experimentally tested whether the mere anticipation of rejection among heavier individuals is enough to lead to downstream negative psychological effects such as decreased self-esteem or feelings of self-consciousness,” explained Blodorn.

Investigators recruited 160 men and women of various body weights, aged 18 to 29, who identified as heterosexual. Each young adult was asked to give a five-minute speech describing why he or she would make a good dating partner and was told the speech would be evaluated by an attractive member of the opposite sex.

Half of the participants learned the evaluator would see a video recording of their speeches, so their weight would be evident. Evaluators for the remainder would hear only the audio portion of the speeches so weight would not be a factor.

Immediately before giving their speeches participants were asked to rate how likely they thought their evaluators would be to accept them or to reject them — this measure tested anticipated rejection.

After their speeches were recorded, participants completed a variety of tests to measure levels of self-esteem, feelings of self-consciousness such as shame and embarrassment, and stress emotions like anxiety and discomfort.

Participants’ height and weight were also measured in order to calculate their body mass index (BMI).

“Heavier women — or those with a higher BMI — who thought their weight would be seen expected to be rejected by their evaluator,” Blodorn explained. “This anticipated rejection led to lower self-esteem, greater feelings of self-consciousness and greater stress.”

The perception of body image also influenced the way thinner women viewed their chances as these women saw their weight as an asset.

“Thinner women expected to be accepted and this led to increased feelings of positive self-esteem, decreased self-consciousness, and less stress,” Blodorn said. “It’s not too surprising, given that thinness and beauty are so intertwined in our society.”

The results differed for men.

“Interestingly, we didn’t see any of the same negative effects for heavier men,” Blodorn said.

“They didn’t expect to be rejected by an attractive female who was going to rate their dating potential when their weight was fully seen. It’s possible that these findings are limited to the dating domain, and more research needs to be done before we could say heavier men are not affected by weight stigma.”

Researchers believe the study shows that for heavier women the direct experiences with negative weight-based treatment are not necessary for weight stigma to have negative effects.

That is, the mere expectation of rejection can lead to stress.

“Even in the absence of actual experiences with negative weight-based treatment, anticipated rejection can lead to negative psychological health,” Blodorn said.

“Given that weight bias is so pervasive in our society, these findings have huge implications for the psychological well-being of heavier women.

“It seems inevitable that in a slew of different situations, such as going to the grocery store or gym, they are going to be worried about being rejected or evaluated unfavorably due to their weight,” she concluded.

“And this can lead to long-term decreases in well-being.”

Source: University of California, Santa Barbara

Fear of Rejection Stresses Overweight Women

Rick Nauert PhD

Rick Nauert, PhDDr. Rick Nauert has over 25 years experience in clinical, administrative and academic healthcare. He is currently an associate professor for Rocky Mountain University of Health Professionals doctoral program in health promotion and wellness. Dr. Nauert began his career as a clinical physical therapist and served as a regional manager for a publicly traded multidisciplinary rehabilitation agency for 12 years. He has masters degrees in health-fitness management and healthcare administration and a doctoral degree from The University of Texas at Austin focused on health care informatics, health administration, health education and health policy. His research efforts included the area of telehealth with a specialty in disease management.

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Nauert PhD, R. (2018). Fear of Rejection Stresses Overweight Women. Psych Central. Retrieved on September 26, 2020, from
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Last updated: 8 Aug 2018 (Originally: 23 Mar 2016)
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