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Little Good May Come of 'Helicopter' Parenting

Little Good May Come of ‘Helicopter’ Parenting

New research by professors at Brigham Young University revealed that even additional parental warmth does not undo the negative consequences of “helicopter” parenting.

Helicopter parents tend to be fixated on their children’s experiences and problems, particularly at educational institutions, be it middle school, high school or even college.

Additionally, if a helicopter parent does not exude warmth, then the negative effects of the parenting style are accentuated. Such negative effects include lower self-worth and higher risk behavior, such as binge drinking.

“From our past work, we thought there might be something positive about helicopter parenting under certain conditions, but we’re just not finding it,” study author Larry Nelson said.

The study, published in Emerging Adulthood, is a follow-up to 2012 research on helicopter parenting that found the children of helicopter parents are less engaged in school.

Now they’ve found that helicopter parenting combined with an absence of parental warmth is especially detrimental to young adults’ well-being.

Researchers defined helicopter parenting as parents’ over-involvement in the lives of their children. This includes making important decisions for them, solving their problems, and intervening in their children’s conflicts. Warmth is measured by parental availability to talk and spend time together.

Nelson and Padilla-Walker examined data from 438 undergraduate students in four universities nationwide (not including Brigham Young University). The students self-reported on their parents’ controlling behavior and warmth, then on their own self-esteem, risk behaviors, and academics.

Results showed that the lack of warmth intensifies both the decrease in self-worth and increase in risk behaviors in the young-adult children of helicopter parents. High levels of parental warmth reduced the negative effects, but did not eliminate them completely.

The findings suggest that loving parents can’t justify their helicoptering tendencies; too much control is too much, no matter the parents’ affection and support.

“Overall, stepping in and doing for a child what the child developmentally should be doing for him or herself, is negative,” Nelson said. “Regardless of the form of control, it’s harmful at this time period.”

The authors note that helicopter parenting is relatively uncommon and not as damaging as forms of control that are harsh, punitive, or manipulative.

Nelson warned that helicopter parents shouldn’t overcompensate by removing themselves completely from their children’s lives. Young adults deserve more autonomy, but still need parental support.

“Lack of control does not mean lack of involvement, warmth, and support,” Nelson said.

Source: Brigham Young University

Little Good May Come of ‘Helicopter’ Parenting

Rick Nauert PhD

Rick Nauert, PhDDr. Rick Nauert has over 25 years experience in clinical, administrative and academic healthcare. He is currently an associate professor for Rocky Mountain University of Health Professionals doctoral program in health promotion and wellness. Dr. Nauert began his career as a clinical physical therapist and served as a regional manager for a publicly traded multidisciplinary rehabilitation agency for 12 years. He has masters degrees in health-fitness management and healthcare administration and a doctoral degree from The University of Texas at Austin focused on health care informatics, health administration, health education and health policy. His research efforts included the area of telehealth with a specialty in disease management.

APA Reference
Nauert PhD, R. (2015). Little Good May Come of ‘Helicopter’ Parenting. Psych Central. Retrieved on May 24, 2018, from https://psychcentral.com/news/2015/06/03/additional-love-does-not-excuse-helicopter-parenting/85298.html

 

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