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Parental Violence Has Different Effect On Boys, Girls

Parental Violence Has Different Effect On Boys, Girls

Case Western Reserve University researchers have found that girls and boys can be affected differently by seeing parental violence.

While girls tend to internalize their exposure to such violence, boys are more inclined to act out aggressively says Megan R. Holmes, Ph.D., M.S.W., the study’s lead investigator. While the reactions may differ, both can result in poor social development.

Findings of the study, produced with researchers from the University of Wisconsin at Milwaukee, were recently reported in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence.

Researchers looked at behavior and exposure to violence in the home at two pivotal points in a child’s development.

The first was when the child started preschool, when the focus is on learning social skills. The second was when the child began kindergarten, a time when children are expected to adjust to more structured academics.

Researchers analyzed information from a sample of 1,125 children referred to Child Protective Services for abuse or neglect in the federal Administration for Children and Families’ database.

From this data set, researchers tracked how often children saw violence between partners and connected that exposure to behavior problems.

The researchers also studied responses from the children’s mothers, who were interviewed about their child’s aggressive behaviors and social skills, in such areas as assertiveness, cooperation, responsibility, and self-control.

Mothers reported violence occurring (such as pushing, choking, slapping, or threatening with a gun or knife) from zero to 192 times when the child was between age three and four, or an average of 17 times per child, in the past year.

At the second pivotal point, children from five to seven years old witnessed zero to 191 instances, or 13 times per child.

“Most children fell within normal ranges for social development and aggression,” Holmes said. Yet 14 percent were of clinical concern for aggressive behavior, and 46 percent displayed fewer social skills than their peers during preschool.

During kindergarten years, aggression increased to 18 percent, and 34 percent still showed fewer social skills. Differences in how boys and girls reacted to seeing violent episodes also emerged.

“The exposure occurring when the child was of school age predicted poor social skills for girls but not for boys,” Holmes said.

The findings suggest school-age (kindergarten) girls may be more likely to struggle with the social skills needed to interact with others and succeed in school.

Meanwhile, boys were more likely to display aggressive behavior starting in preschool as a result of their exposure to the violence. This set off a chain reaction resulting in both increased aggression and poorer social skills during kindergarten and beyond. The concern is the same: that aggression hinders developing social skills.

“This aggression tends to isolate and prevent healthy interactions with other children,” Holmes said.

Early years are critical to a child’s development, yet the negative effects may not surface until children are older, she said.

Holmes hopes the information can lead to new interventions at these two pivotal points to help children develop emotionally.

Source: Case Western Reserve University


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Parental Violence Has Different Effect On Boys, Girls

Rick Nauert PhD

Rick Nauert, PhDDr. Rick Nauert has over 25 years experience in clinical, administrative and academic healthcare. He is currently an associate professor for Rocky Mountain University of Health Professionals doctoral program in health promotion and wellness. Dr. Nauert began his career as a clinical physical therapist and served as a regional manager for a publicly traded multidisciplinary rehabilitation agency for 12 years. He has masters degrees in health-fitness management and healthcare administration and a doctoral degree from The University of Texas at Austin focused on health care informatics, health administration, health education and health policy. His research efforts included the area of telehealth with a specialty in disease management.

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Nauert PhD, R. (2018). Parental Violence Has Different Effect On Boys, Girls. Psych Central. Retrieved on December 2, 2020, from
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Last updated: 8 Aug 2018 (Originally: 4 Dec 2014)
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