Early Exposure to Verbal Conflict Can Aid in Coping with Adult Stress
While the holiday season is a time to reconnect with family and friends, it can also be a time of stress.
Although the opportunity to be in close contact with family and friends is welcomed, the environment may result in heated debates, or differing opinions on subjects that someone may passionately support.
For some, the stress is potentially damaging, while others seem able to shrug it off.
A new study, published in the journal Human Communication Research, addresses why some can handle these stressful events better than others.
Researchers from Rollins College and Pennsylvania State University found that individuals who were exposed to intense verbal aggression as children are able to handle intense conflict later in life.
Researchers Lindsey Aloia and Denise Solomon studied 50 romantically involved couples and found that the more intense the conflict interaction was rated between the couples, the stronger the physiological stress response to the conflict.
This relationship, however, was weakened for individuals who reported a higher level of childhood exposure to verbal aggression.
For the experiment the couples provided saliva samples to determine their baseline cortisol levels. They were then interviewed separately about the most stressful areas of conflict in their relationship and filled out a questionnaire that asked about their childhood experiences with verbal aggression.
Following the interview, partners were asked to sit together and discuss an area of conflict alone for 10 minutes. The sessions were videotaped. After the discussion the couples were separated again and provided two additional saliva samples over a period of 20 minutes after the conflict.
Trained judges then watched video recordings of the couples and rated the intensity of the conflict communication of each couple. Finally, cortisol levels were calculated to evaluate experiences of stress using the collected saliva samples.
Previous research has examined the experience of conflict within a multitude of relationships.
The prior studies clearly showed that conflict can produce a number of negative outcomes. For example, exposure to conflict has been linked to depression, distress, and anxiety; feelings of hurt and anger; relationship dissatisfaction; and subsequent physical violence.
Emerging research points to the role of physiological processes in understanding the variation in individuals’ experiences of interpersonal conflict.
Considering the physiological implications for stress and viewing interpersonal conflict interactions as potential stressors highlights how experiences of conflict occur.
The way in which an individual responds to the conflict is shaped by both the demands of the interaction and people’s adaptive capacity to handle that stressor.
“Conflict experiences can be beneficial, by alleviating tension and avoiding conflict escalation, reducing communication apprehension, and contributing to closeness within the relationship,” said Aloia.
“Given the diversity of outcomes associated with interpersonal conflict, efforts to understand variation in the experienced negativity of conflict experiences are extremely important in helping people navigate these interactions.”
Nauert PhD, R. (2018). Early Exposure to Verbal Conflict Can Aid in Coping with Adult Stress. Psych Central. Retrieved on September 21, 2020, from https://psychcentral.com/news/2014/11/25/early-exposure-to-verbal-conflict-can-aid-in-coping-with-adult-stress/77756.html