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Doctor Visits Can Lead to Shame & Guilt

Doctor Visits Can Lead to Shame & GuiltIf you are bummed out after a visit to a doctor, don’t stress; it happens a lot.

In fact, a new study finds that feeling ashamed or guilty occurs after 50 percent of physician encounters. These emotions are often counterproductive to positive health behavioral change, say the researchers.

In a pair of new studies, Dr. Christine Harris, professor of psychology in the UC San Diego Division of Social Sciences and colleagues examined the consequences of these physician-inspired feelings.

The research looks at how an individual’s reaction helps or hinders behavioral change.

That is, why some patients react to the shame- or guilt-provoking experience in a way that promotes health while others turn to lying or avoidance.

Researchers believe that gaining insight into patient reactions is important because “more than one-third of all deaths in the United States are still essentially preventable and largely due to unhealthy patient behavior.”

The research is published in the Journal of Basic and Applied Social Psychology and is a follow-up on Harris’ 2009 work showing that more than 50 percent of respondents had experienced shame based on something a physician said.

The earlier work also documented the diversity of reactions.

In the current paper, Harris and her co- authors performed two related studies: One surveyed and analyzed the responses of 491 UC San Diego undergraduates about shame when interacting with a doctor.

The second looked at both guilt and shame and included 417 participants from a wide range of socioeconomic backgrounds, aged 18 to 75.

In the younger cohort, nearly one-quarter of participants had experienced a shaming encounter with a physician. In the mixed-age group, roughly half had, Harris said.

In both studied groups, weight and sex were the most frequently cited shaming topics.

Teeth came up frequently with the younger subjects as well. (Possible topics also included smoking, alcohol or substance use, not taking prescribed medications or following doctor’s orders, and mental health, among others.)

Family practice doctors, gynecologists and dentists were the specialties most often cited as shaming. This is probably because, Harris said, people generally see these types of physicians more than any others.

As in the 2009 work, the emotional and behavioral reactions to the shaming experience varied widely: from making a profound lifestyle change to improve health to, on the opposite extreme, just avoiding all doctors altogether.

What matters most and seems to make the greatest difference, Harris said, is whether the patient “makes a global attribution, condemning the entire self” or just condemns the behavior at hand.

Focusing on the behavior leads more often to good outcomes.

“People who report a more positive reaction focus in on a bad act not a bad self,” Harris said.

“Capacity to change mediates the response. In the simplest terms: Those who say ‘I’m a smoker’ or ‘I’m a fat person’ may feel resigned while those who say ‘I smoke’ or ‘I eat too much’ also seem to think ‘I can stop doing that.'”

Also significant, the researchers find, is the patient’s perception of the doctor’s intent.

“If you perceive your doctor is intentionally trying to make you feel shame or guilt, then the reaction is exclusively negative,” Harris said.

“We didn’t see any positive reactions at all.”

Gender difference were also discovered. Women reported experiencing shame and guilt during doctors’ visits more often than men did.

They also reported more negative reactions. But, interestingly, this doesn’t seem to be because women are making more global attributions.

The reason for the gender difference remains an open research question, Harris said. It could be that doctors treat men and women differently. Or it could be that women hear the signal more strongly or have differing perceptions of the interaction.

In the meanwhile, Harris said, doctors will continue to have the unenviable task of discussing delicate subjects with their patients and with making recommendations about unhealthy behaviors.

Researchers hope physicians will understand that “Tough love and shaming don’t always work. In fact, they can be counterproductive.”

“To improve outcomes,” Harris said, “doctors need to try to keep the conversation focused on the behavior (not the person) and avoid, as much as possible, being perceived as intentionally inflicting shame or guilt.”

As for patients, the best advice she can give is: “Think not of what you are but what you can do.”

Source: University of California – San Diego


Unhappy male patient photo by shutterstock.

Doctor Visits Can Lead to Shame & Guilt

Rick Nauert PhD

Rick Nauert, PhDDr. Rick Nauert has over 25 years experience in clinical, administrative and academic healthcare. He is currently an associate professor for Rocky Mountain University of Health Professionals doctoral program in health promotion and wellness. Dr. Nauert began his career as a clinical physical therapist and served as a regional manager for a publicly traded multidisciplinary rehabilitation agency for 12 years. He has masters degrees in health-fitness management and healthcare administration and a doctoral degree from The University of Texas at Austin focused on health care informatics, health administration, health education and health policy. His research efforts included the area of telehealth with a specialty in disease management.

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Nauert PhD, R. (2018). Doctor Visits Can Lead to Shame & Guilt. Psych Central. Retrieved on September 28, 2020, from
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Last updated: 8 Aug 2018 (Originally: 17 Jan 2014)
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