Meeting Spouse Online Linked to Better Marriage
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A new report from the University of Chicago suggests that online couples have happier, longer marriages.
Researchers also discovered that more than one-third of marriages between 2005 and 2012 began online.
Although the study was not designed to determine cause and effect, experts hypothesize the success of online facilitated marriages could result from the strong motivations of online daters, the availability of advance screening, and the sheer volume of opportunities online.
“These data suggest that the Internet may be altering the dynamics and outcomes of marriage itself,” said the study’s lead author, psychologist Dr. John Cacioppo.
The paper is published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.
Experts say meeting online has become an increasingly common way to find a partner, with opportunities arising through social networks, exchanges of email, instant messages, multiplayer games and online communities.
The research shows that couples who met online were more likely to have higher marital satisfaction and lower rates of marital breakups than relationships that began in face-to-face meetings.
Marriage breakups were reported in about 6 percent of the people who met online, compared with 7.6 percent of the people who met offline.
Marriages for people who met online reported a mean score of 5.64 on a satisfaction survey, compared with a score of 5.48 for people who met offline. The survey was based on questions about their happiness with their marriage and degree of affection, communication and love for each other.
For the study, Cacioppo led a team that examined the results of a representative sample of 19,131 people who responded to a survey by Harris Interactive about their marriages and satisfaction.
The study found a wide variety of venues, both online and offline, where people met. About 45 percent met through an online dating site.
People who met online were more likely to be older (30 to 39 is the largest age group represented), employed and had a higher income. The group was diverse racially and ethnically.
People who met offline found marriage partners at various venues including work, school, church, social gatherings, clubs and bars, and places of worship.
Researchers determined some of the least successful marriages were those in which people met at bars, through blind dates and in virtual worlds (where individuals interact in online spaces via avatars), the researchers found.
The value of beginning a relationship online includes more selectivity and the focused nature of online dating.
The differences in marital outcomes from online and offline meetings persisted after controlling for demographic differences, but “it is possible that individuals who met their spouse online may be different in personality, motivation to form a long-term marital relationship, or some other factor,” said Cacioppo.
Meeting online also may provide a larger pool of prospective marriage partners, along with advance screening in the case of dating services. And although deception often occurs online, studies suggest that people are relatively honest in online dating encounters; the lies tend to be minor misrepresentations of weight or height.
“Marital outcomes are influenced by a variety of factors. Where one meets their spouse is only one contributing factor, and the effects of where one meets one’s spouse are understandably quite small and do not hold for everyone,” Cacioppo said.
“The results of this study are nevertheless encouraging, given the paradigm shift in terms of how Americans are meeting their spouses.”
Source: University of Chicago
Rick Nauert PhD
Dr. Rick Nauert has over 25 years experience in clinical, administrative and academic healthcare. He is currently an associate professor for Rocky Mountain University of Health Professionals doctoral program in health promotion and wellness. Dr. Nauert began his career as a clinical physical therapist and served as a regional manager for a publicly traded multidisciplinary rehabilitation agency for 12 years. He has masters degrees in health-fitness management and healthcare administration and a doctoral degree from The University of Texas at Austin focused on health care informatics, health administration, health education and health policy. His research efforts included the area of telehealth with a specialty in disease management.
Nauert PhD, R. (2018). Meeting Spouse Online Linked to Better Marriage. Psych Central. Retrieved on July 13, 2020, from https://psychcentral.com/news/2013/06/04/meeting-spouse-online-linked-to-better-marriage/55590.html