Parental Time with Teen is Time Well-Spent
A new study dispels the notion that teens would prefer to spend time with their friends, rather than their parents.
Although teens certainly want more of their own space or independence, researchers discovered the time teens spend with their parents tends to improve their well-being.
“The stereotype that teenagers spend all their time holed up in their rooms or hanging out with friends is, indeed, just a stereotype,” said researcher Susan McHale, Ph.D.
“Our research shows that, well into the adolescent years, teens continue to spend time with their parents and that this shared time, especially shared time with fathers, has important implications for adolescents’ psychological and social adjustment.”
The researchers studied whether the stereotype of teens growing apart from their parents and spending less time with them captured the everyday experiences of families by examining changes in the amount of time youths spent with their parents from early to late adolescence.
On five occasions over seven years, the team conducted home and phone interviews with mothers, fathers and the two oldest children in almost 200 white, middle- and working-class families living in small cities, towns and rural communities.
At the start of the study, the oldest children in each family were about 11 and the second oldest were about 8 years old.
During the home interviews, teens reported on their social skills with peers and their self-esteem.
After each home visit, the researchers also conducted a series of seven nightly phone interviews, asking teens about their activities during the day of the call, including who participated in the activities with them.
According to youths’ reports of their daily time, although parent-teen time when others were also present declined from the early to late teen years, parent-teen time with just the parent and the teen present increased in early and middle adolescence — a finding that contradicts the stereotype of teens growing apart from their parents.
“This suggests that, while adolescents become more independent, they continue to have one-on-one opportunities to maintain close relationships with their parents,” McHale said.
Researchers also discovered that teens who spent more time with their fathers with others present had better social skills with peers. Also, teens that spent more time alone with their fathers had higher self-esteem.
The researchers discovered the decline in the time teens spent with parents and others was less pronounced for second-born than for first-born siblings.
Investigators also found that both mothers and fathers spent more time alone with a child of their same gender when they had both a daughter and a son.
Source: Penn State
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