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Copying Body Language Can Have a Social Cost

Be Careful When Copying Body LanguageSubtle mimicry of body language can act as a kind of “social glue” in human relationships. It can foster bonding, an unspoken rapport and trust.

But new research suggests that mirroring another person’s body language may not always lead to positive social outcomes, and sometimes the smarter thing to do is to refrain.

In a new study, Piotr Winkielman and Liam Kavanagh, along with Christopher Suhler and Patricia Churchland, note that in real-life situations there are often observers to the mirroring that takes place between two people.

This led them to wonder whether mimicry sometimes comes at a reputational cost. Are there cases in which an observer might actually think less of a person for mirroring the behavior of another?

Results of three experiments suggest that mimicry is more nuanced than previously thought and not “uniformly beneficial to the mimicker.” Two people who like each other, for example, will often unconsciously mirror each other’s mannerisms in subtle ways — leaning forward in close synchrony, for example.

Currently, mirroring of body language is frequently urged as a strategy for flirting or having a successful date, for closing a sale, or acing a job interview.

“Mimicry is a crucial part of social intelligence,” said Winkielman, University of California – San Diego professor of psychology.

“But it is not enough to simply know how to mimic. It’s also important to know when and when not to. The success of mirroring depends on mirroring the right people at the right time for the right reasons. Sometimes the socially intelligent thing to do is not to imitate.”

Some participants in the study viewed videos in which the interviewer was cordial and others saw videos in which the (same) interviewer was unfriendly. The people being interviewed in the videos either mirrored the interviewer’s simple mannerisms, such as chin-touching or leg-crossing, or they did not.

Despite the fact that the participants were not instructed to watch for mimicry and reported no awareness of it, it still influenced their evaluations: Interviewees who mimicked the unfriendly interlocutor were judged to be less competent than those who didn’t.

In other words, to outside observers, the imitators of the undesirable model harmed their reputation (even if they did the action unconsciously).

In a second experiment, participants were exposed to the same videos but with the interviewer obscured. In other words, they couldn’t see any evidence of mimicry, and the results support the researchers’ hypothesis: It is not merely interacting with negatively perceived people that has a social cost; you pay a price for aligning with them through body language.

Interestingly, an additional experiment showed that the reputational cost of mimicking an unfriendly interviewer disappeared when participants read positive information about that interviewer – i.e., that he was engaged in humanitarian work – before watching the video.

“It’s almost as though mimicry of a condescending interviewer was forgiven when he was judged to be good at heart,” Winkielman said.

Our social lives are incredibly complex, said Winkielman, and in order to build or maintain relationships we have to keep in mind a variety of factors.

“It’s good to have the capacity to mimic,” he said, “but an important part of social intelligence is knowing how to deploy this capacity in a selective, intelligent, context-dependent manner, and understanding, even implicitly, when mirroring can reflect badly on you.”

Source: University of California – San Diego

Copying Body Language Can Have a Social Cost

Rick Nauert PhD

Rick Nauert, PhDDr. Rick Nauert has over 25 years experience in clinical, administrative and academic healthcare. He is currently an associate professor for Rocky Mountain University of Health Professionals doctoral program in health promotion and wellness. Dr. Nauert began his career as a clinical physical therapist and served as a regional manager for a publicly traded multidisciplinary rehabilitation agency for 12 years. He has masters degrees in health-fitness management and healthcare administration and a doctoral degree from The University of Texas at Austin focused on health care informatics, health administration, health education and health policy. His research efforts included the area of telehealth with a specialty in disease management.

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Nauert PhD, R. (2018). Copying Body Language Can Have a Social Cost. Psych Central. Retrieved on November 24, 2020, from
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