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Advice for Parents When Buying Video Games

Parental Advice on Video Games As the holidays approach, parents wonder if the video games requested by their children are appropriate.

A new book coauthored by Iowa State University psychology professors aims to answer this bothersome question.

In the book “Violent Video Game Effects on Children and Adolescents,” coauthors Craig Anderson, Doug Gentile and Katherine Buckley say video game ratings are a good starting point for parents when shopping for games.

But they don’t tell the whole story.

“Parents and researchers initially believed that what mattered most about violent games was how realistic and bloody they were. Our research now suggests that what matters most is whether you have to harm other characters to advance in the game,” Gentile said.

“Increased aggression may result from practicing harming others, even if it is unrealistic or cartoonish.”

The professors’ research has shown that children can learn from the content presented in the video game — whether it is positive or negative.

“If they play drums in ‘Beatles Rock Band,’ they will get better at drums. If the kids play games where you have to harm other characters, then they become more willing to use aggressive tactics,” said Gentile.

Anderson and Gentile have also found that nonviolent “prosocial” video games can teach kids to be more cooperative and helpful to others. And they say there are a number of video game genres that usually have positive effects, including:

  • Music simulation games – “Beatles Rock Band” or “Guitar Hero 5”
  • Movement Games -“Wii Fit Plus” or “Mario & Sonic at the Winter Olympic Games”
  • Puzzle or Trivia Games – “Trivial Pursuit” or “Scene It?”
  • Prosocial Games – “The Sims 3” or “Animal Crossing: City Folk”

There are also games that the ISU researchers report have little positive or negative content, but are simply fun.

“Most sports games, except the ones that feature violence; many simulation games; and many racing games are like this and are fine for children and adolescents,” said Anderson. He offers the following advice to parents before making a video game purchase for their child:

  • Play the game, have someone else demonstrate it for you, or look at clips from the game on the game’s Web site. Then ask yourself the following questions:
    1. Does the game involve some characters trying to harm others?
    2. Does this happen frequently, more than once or twice in 30 minutes?
    3. Is the harm rewarded in any way?
    4. Is the harm portrayed as humorous?
    5. Are non-violent solutions absent or less “fun” than the violent ones?
    6. Are realistic consequences of violence absent from the game?

Two or more “yes” answers should cause parents to think carefully about the lessons being taught before purchasing that game for children, Anderson said.

“Although playing violent video games on an occasional basis is unlikely to produce any long-term harmful consequences, repeated exposure to violent entertainment media of any type is an important risk factor for later aggressiveness,” said Anderson.

“Parents need to carefully examine the content of video games before allowing their children to use them.”

The growing popularity of video games has led to more parents playing them with their children. But the ISU researchers say simply playing along is not enough to ensure a child’s safety. In fact, it may enhance both the positive and negative effects.

“Parents should explain to kids that violence is not an appropriate way to solve problems and explain you should not act this way in real life,” Anderson noted.

“This is an excellent opportunity for parents to teach their children values and lessons in real life.”

“Actively questioning and discussing the content of media is a powerful parenting tool,” Gentile said.

“Getting children to think critically about why the content can be harmful can lead to healthier outcomes for children.”

Source: Iowa State University

Advice for Parents When Buying Video Games

Rick Nauert PhD

Rick Nauert, PhDDr. Rick Nauert has over 25 years experience in clinical, administrative and academic healthcare. He is currently an associate professor for Rocky Mountain University of Health Professionals doctoral program in health promotion and wellness. Dr. Nauert began his career as a clinical physical therapist and served as a regional manager for a publicly traded multidisciplinary rehabilitation agency for 12 years. He has masters degrees in health-fitness management and healthcare administration and a doctoral degree from The University of Texas at Austin focused on health care informatics, health administration, health education and health policy. His research efforts included the area of telehealth with a specialty in disease management.

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