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Is Using a Shower Massager Okay to Masturbate?

Is Using a Shower Massager Okay to Masturbate?Masturbation is a normal and healthy part of human sexuality. More men than women masturbate, but it doesn’t matter what gender you identify with — if you’re human, it’s likely you’ve given it a try at some point. It’s the perfect way to release one’s sexual tension, and you don’t need anything more than a good imagination and some time in order to do it.

Women often start masturbating later in life than men, and approach masturbation more tentatively. Many women feel uncomfortable touching themselves directly and prefer to instead rely on either a vibrator or some other object to masturbate with. This is completely natural and normal. There is no “right” way to masturbate — it’s different for every person. Many women can reach orgasm more readily while masturbating than when having sex. This may be due to many reasons, including the fact that we know what we like best (and can most easily do it ourselves).

Like most men, most women prefer masturbating in private, and the shower or bath is often one perfect place to do so. It affords a certain amount of privacy that a person can be assured won’t readily be broken (especially if you lock the door beforehand!).

Using a shower massager is one of the tried-and-true ways of reaching orgasm for many women. In fact, one study showed this method to be the third most common way that women discovered orgasm (just after hands and rubbing against an object).

It is very hard to cause damage to your body by masturbating, no matter how you do it. Just use your body as a guide: If something feels painful, then stop. (That’s a good rule for anything in life — if it’s something you don’t like or feels painful, then stop doing it.)

But there is no harm from using a shower massager in order to masturbate. About the worst thing that could happen is that if a lot of water were to enter your vagina it could upset the natural balance and make you susceptible to a yeast infection. If you want to avoid this, concentrate the water on the outside and don’t put the shower massager directly up against or inside your vagina.

Otherwise, relax and enjoy!

Is Using a Shower Massager Okay to Masturbate?

Marina Benjamen, Ph.D.

Marina Benjamen, Ph.D. is an award-winning journalist and writer, with wide-ranging interests across the arts and sciences. After serving as Arts Editor of the New Statesman, Deputy Arts Editor at the Evening Standard, she wrote op-ed columns for the Daily Express and Scotland on Sunday. In 2012, she joined the team that launched the online magazine Aeon, where she now works as a senior editor.

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Benjamen, M. (2018). Is Using a Shower Massager Okay to Masturbate?. Psych Central. Retrieved on April 19, 2019, from
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