I’ve been a quitter most of my life. I’ve quit the small things (e.g. diets and projects) and big ones too (e.g. jobs, and friendships). But as I got older, I realized that the really good things in life were worth sacrificing. Besides, you couldn’t quit when things got hard during pregnancy, in labor, a long-term relationship or when you have children. You couldn’t just hold up your hands, wave that white flag and say, “I give up!”
I remember a pivotal moment when I realized it. I was sitting in my living room, two kids in tow and felt myself starting to self-pity. I was tired. They were sick. I just didn’t think I had it in me to take care of them. I wanted to give up. When a wave of discouragement started to crash down on me, I realized I had two options. I could surrender to what is or I could make the situation harder on all of us by worrying, complaining and thinking about all the other things I wish I could do.
The house didn’t get cleaned that day. But surrendering to the mess, my situation and the kids by being present and not quitting on myself, changed me. It taught me I had superhero strength. If I was never forced to test it, I would never know it existed.
That’s what I believe of you too. Just when you think you can’t go on, when raising an ADHD child or dealing with mental illness has got you down, it’ll be there, waiting for you to tap into it.
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