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10 Tips for a Successful Relationship

  • Exhibit physical affection.
    Get physical with your partner, such as kissing, holding hands, scratching the back or giving a hug, just to let your partner know that you love and care about them. A study by Arizona State University shows that such physical affection increases the feel-good hormones, improves mood and releases stress. If you are in a long-distance relationship, call frequently and let the other person know that you are thinking of him or her.
  • Provide support.
    No human being is perfect! When your partner makes mistakes or is going through a hard time at work, show your physical and emotional support. Talk to your partner, give compliments often, listen when he or she is upset and help with work if you can. At the same time, don’t get too bossy and overbearing.
  • Create milestones together.
    When you and your partner work toward the same cause, you are more likely to focus on each other’s positive side. Set common goals such as saving toward a vacation, your children’s college funds or anything else that is meaningful to both of you. Working harmoniously toward such goals can further strengthen your relationship.
  • Fulfill your obligations.
    Relationships come with obligations. Be aware of them, and fulfill them to make your partner happy. At the same time, ensure that you’re not sacrificing your private space; you have to be happy, too. If you’re not comfortable with doing some things, talk about it with your partner.
  • Communicate.
    Human beings are social animals, and communication is an innate need. Talk, text and message each other frequently to build a strong relationship. Be a good listener too, when your partner wants to share his or her day with you.
  • In short, strong relationships do not just happen. Rather, you have to build them with love, passion, understanding, tolerance, acceptance and appreciation. Start today to become loving partners for life!

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    10 Tips for a Successful Relationship

    Ahmed Raza

    Ahmad is an MBA graduate, buzzing with passion to create beautiful words. When he is not playing with his pen and paper, he can be found traveling around the globe taking beautiful pictures of life as it happens.

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    Raza, A. (2018). 10 Tips for a Successful Relationship. Psych Central. Retrieved on November 29, 2020, from
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    Last updated: 8 Jul 2018 (Originally: 14 Nov 2015)
    Last reviewed: By a member of our scientific advisory board on 8 Jul 2018
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