Sexual Issue/ Rape
I’m 21 years old, I believe I’m asexual, I never want to have any sexual activity, I never masturbate, I never had an orgasm. However, I allow people to use me sexually and then I victimize myself, I always feel
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Is Childhood Sexual Abuse Always Traumatic?
Hi, I’m wondering if it’s possible that a childhood trauma I experienced didn’t actually traumatize me. Here are some details for context: I was 7 and in an art program with my best friend and another girl (age 14ish). This
I Developed Feelings for My Friend with Benefits
We dated for a month or so in Jan. but cut it off when we realized neither of us wants a relationship Took a week apart and got back as friends with benefits. It’s been 4-5 months and we hooked
Teenage Daughter Feels My Boyfriend Is Inappropriate
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He has been around my daughter since she was 12. He never touches her much but she has always greeted him with a hug. At 16 she is now growing into
Retroactive Jealousy
So my boyfriend has been with a number of different girls before me while I chose to save myself for him. When I met him I knew he was the one for me and so I decided it was time
I Dont Trust My Ex Boyfriend around My Toddler
When I started dating my now ex-boyfriend I was smitten. I was in love with him. A few weeks into the relationship I googled him and saw he was indicted on sexual charges against a minor. The charges were around
Obsession with Potentially Being Gay
I am a 21-year-old female who is just moving out. At the end of last summer, I suffered from a UTI. With only female coworkers and insecurity about having a relationship, I jumped to the conclusion that the feeling was
Am I a Pedophile?
I am an 18-year-old transgender male, and I’m afraid I might be a pedophile. I have never touched or acted towards a child in an inappropriate way, nor do I intend to. However, I have been aroused by cartoon images
How to Deal with Baggage?
So, my girlfriend recently shared with me that she’s been intimate with 4 other people before we were together. On one hand, I am okay with that because we all have baggage and I love this girl, so I can
Why Won’t My Wife Talk to Me when I’ve Asked Forgiveness?
From a man in the U.S.: I have been with my wife for 27 years, over the past 18 months we have started to drift apart a bit. I became addicted to prescription anxiety meds and started acting out on
My Fiancé of 2.5 Years Just Told Me He Had Sex with His Sister
So my boyfriend (21) and I (22) have been together for 2 and half years. Yesterday we got super drunk and he began to cry and admitted he and his sister (they’re a year apart) lost their virginity to each
Is It OK to Be a Sissy?
From a midle aged man in the U.S.: i have worn panties since i was 12, started with sisters and mommy. now i am married and still wear but wife hates it and i don’t want to stop. Also some