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My Boyfriend Made Out with Me While He Thought I Was Asleep

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

I’d been seeing this guy for maybe two weeks and I hadn’t ever kissed anyone before him. he kissed me and that was all fine but then later when...

I’m Struggling with BF’s Past & How He Speaks to Me

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

Been with BF Long distance to start with (London & La). He told me stories about who he had sex with during his job in a band gig....

This Can’t Be Right

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker

From the : FROM AGE 4 I WAS SEXUALLY EMOTIONALLY AND PHYCIALY ABUSED INCUILDING BEING GANG RAPED AS A CHILD. IS IT POSABLE TO GO FROM UNABLE TO BEING...

I Have an Unattractive Personality But I Like My Personality, Which Is Why I Feel Hopeless

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

I’m 18 and have never had a romantic experience of any sort and never came close to having such an experience either. I know it’s atypical and that destroys...

The Girl I Love Is Secretly in Love with Our Common Friend

By Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

Well I fell in love with a friend. first I didn’t know she was bi. we hangout a lot and one day we were at my house and she...

Strong Urge to Expose Myself to Counselor

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker

From the : I have a very strong urge to expose my backside in panties to my counselor. I feel it will help me but, I don’t want to...

A Woman Is Missing from My Life

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker

From Pakistan: I am not in the habit of writing about my problems to total strangers but sometimes things become so complicated that it is much better to seek...

Changed Whole Life (Job, Country, Etc.) to Join Partner

By Dr. Marie Hartwell-Walker

From Germany: Please help, including being brutally honest. After meeting my boyfriend on line and seeing him regularly (in person, in our respective cities, traveling together etc. often) I...

I Can’t Trust Anybody

By Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW

I’m just somebody from California. So, when I was little, I used to be able to make friends with anybody. I was the most social kid most people knew,...