Your husband says one thing but does another. He’s seems to be having some type of relationship with this woman and doesn’t want you to know about it or to stop it. Unless you are okay with his behavior and don’t mind how he treats you, separation or divorce may be in your best interest.
This woman is not necessarily the problem. You do not know her. It’s your husband who’s the problem. He’s the one who promised to love and cherish you, until death do you part. He is the one who has broken the trust. It would not help to have any interaction with the other woman. It is your husband who has broken the trust, who has lied and who has betrayed you.
I would strongly recommend counseling You may also need to consult a lawyer depending upon your decision. Thanks for your question. Please take care.
Dr. Kristina Randle