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It’s a Sexual Fetish

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I’m a sane, very friendly man. I have a good life, and job. I just want to know why since I was 14 years old, that I love to be dominated sexually by women, and also, love to have women urinate on my face? I’ve done this countless times throughout my life. I love to watch women pee, and to be peed on is heaven! I like to be dominated, by having her verbally humiliate me while she is peeing on me… for some strange reason, it really turns me on. I just cannot figure out all my life, the reason why, or what made me love it. I just want some enlightenment on this subject.

It’s a Sexual Fetish

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Yes, this is a fetish called urolagnia, which involves any sexual excitement associated with urine or urination. The reasons and treatment can vary depending on the type of therapy used. The domination and humiliation are not always part of the fetish itself.

Wishing you patience and peace,
Dr. Dan
Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral

It’s a Sexual Fetish

Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

Dan Tomasulo Ph.D., TEP, MFA, MAPP teaches Positive Psychology in the graduate program of Counseling and Clinical Psychology at Columbia University, Teachers College and works with Martin Seligman, the Father of Positive Psychology in the Masters of Applied Positive Psychology (MAPP) program at the University of Pennsylvania. He is Director of the New York Certification in Positive Psychology for the Open Center in New York City and on faculty at New Jersey City University. Sharecare has honored him as one of the top 10 online influencers on the topic of depression. For more information go to: He also writes for Psych Central's Ask the Therapist column and the Proof Positive blog.

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Tomasulo, D. (2018). It’s a Sexual Fetish. Psych Central. Retrieved on April 21, 2019, from
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