I think it is very brave of you to be vulnerable enough to write this email. Since you are at a university it is time for you to get the counseling that you need for coping with and surviving a rough childhood. Now is the time to sort through the need for so much attention, the lying, and making up the stalker.
When people we should have been able to trust betray us it causes us to challenge our way of being. Much of what you are coping with is likely to have come from the difficulties in childhood. The university typically has very good therapists on staff who can help you sort all of this through.
You’ve taken a big step here by writing the email. I encourage you to take the next step and talk to a counselor at your school.
Wishing you patience and peace,
Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral