I’m not certain of your exact question so I will provide a general response. You mentioned potentially having problems with binge eating, social anxiety and loneliness. It also sounds as though you may not have someone with whom you can share your feelings and concerns. That is where counseling would help.
My suggestion is to ask your mother if she would assist you in finding a local therapist. You believe that something is wrong but it is not clear whether you have a binge eating problem or social anxiety, and so forth. A therapist will identify what might be wrong but most importantly, will teach you how to manage stressful situations and strong emotions.
If your mother isn’t receptive to counseling, speak to the school counselor. They can provide you immediate assistance and contact your mother about your beginning counseling on a regular basis.
In the meantime, try interacting with your peers in person instead of on social media. You might find those interactions more satisfying. You will be less lonely and most likely less stressed. When it comes to building friendships, it’s better to communicate face-to-face than through social media especially if you’re feeling lonely. Good luck and please take care.
Dr. Kristina Randle