From Romania: We are together by 8 months now. He is 10 years older, divorced with a daughter that lives with her mom in another city. We are also in a long distance relationship, we live 600km away. We spoke many times per day, he used to send me video with love declarations, we made plans for marriage and moving in the same city, everything was perfect, like he came, he hugged me and I felt like I never did, no more pain, frustrations or bad memories. Just love and the future in front of me.
Last week, he said on the phone that he knows that his daughter won’t be able to enjoy him for a long time, because he will not live until his parents are. I asked, laughing, joking why is he not speaking about me and our children when he talks about the future. he got angry, we fight, he closed his phone for the night and since then, he is ignoring my calls, message, emails, everything. Not a single word. Nothing.
I am supposed to live tomorrow in his town for a business trip, I started to write that I need to know where I am going to stay for those 10 days, still no answer.
I don’t question the love we felt, the feelings. And I also don’t think that he stopped loving me in one moment. And I don’t understand what happened, I cry, smoke a lot, I am not sleeping. I don’t know if I should knock at his door when I arrive in town or just let him be and dumb him and everything we were.
I don’t know why is he shutting me down, what I did that hurt him so much, until this event, my life was him, I was ready to quit my business and move to his town, I was so sure we were real. I still think I can forgive him, because he has lots of past issues, but I am not that certain anymore. I don’t know what to do to save us and help him.