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Husband Asking about Past Now — 15 Years Later

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After 15 years together, my husband is now asking me about my previous relationships. Why? When we began dating, we said the past is the past. Now he keeps asking questions about my past. About 2 months ago I found out he was texting a coworker — does this have something to do with it?

Husband Asking about Past Now — 15 Years Later

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Your intuition sounds right. It seems like he is looking for a reason to justify his texting. Don’t let this unravel. It is time to get into couple therapy. The “find help” tab at the top of the page will help you find people who are qualified. You may also find qualified couple therapists here.

Wishing you patience and peace,
Dr. Dan
Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral

Husband Asking about Past Now — 15 Years Later

Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

Dan Tomasulo Ph.D., TEP, MFA, MAPP teaches Positive Psychology in the graduate program of Counseling and Clinical Psychology at Columbia University, Teachers College and works with Martin Seligman, the Father of Positive Psychology in the Masters of Applied Positive Psychology (MAPP) program at the University of Pennsylvania. He is Director of the New York Certification in Positive Psychology for the Open Center in New York City and on faculty at New Jersey City University. Sharecare has honored him as one of the top 10 online influencers on the topic of depression. For more information go to: He also writes for Psych Central's Ask the Therapist column and the Proof Positive blog.

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Tomasulo, D. (2018). Husband Asking about Past Now — 15 Years Later. Psych Central. Retrieved on March 25, 2019, from
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