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I Feel Lost, I Can’t Keep My Pants on (I Feel Slutty) and Lonely

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As me been raised in Muslim country with a horrible family that they finally kinda accept me as an atheist, I always felt so lost and lonely I never told my family that am a (lesbian) or the fact that I lost my virginity 3 years ago, they will definitely kill me, whatever I tried to kill myself, I hate myself. I feel like am a hypocrite who pretends to be someone else. Whatever lead me to here I am being blackmailed by a guy I had sex with couple days ago to feel like a straight one. So now I am (lesbian, hypocrite, alone, slut who slept with a guy she never knew) and definitely ashamed and don’t know what to do or who to talk with it just like my life reach the end literally. (From Sudan)

I Feel Lost, I Can’t Keep My Pants on (I Feel Slutty) and Lonely

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From your background information you say that you are a first year college student. I would go to the counseling center there because they are trained to work with students who are struggling with their transitions and identity. See them sooner rather than later because you do not need to be in this much pain. They can help you sort through this.

Wishing you patience and peace,
Dr. Dan
Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral

I Feel Lost, I Can’t Keep My Pants on (I Feel Slutty) and Lonely

Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

Dan Tomasulo Ph.D., TEP, MFA, MAPP teaches Positive Psychology in the graduate program of Counseling and Clinical Psychology at Columbia University, Teachers College and works with Martin Seligman, the Father of Positive Psychology in the Masters of Applied Positive Psychology (MAPP) program at the University of Pennsylvania. He is Director of the New York Certification in Positive Psychology for the Open Center in New York City and on faculty at New Jersey City University. Sharecare has honored him as one of the top 10 online influencers on the topic of depression. For more information go to: http://www.dare2behappy.com/. He also writes for Psych Central's Ask the Therapist column and the Proof Positive blog.

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Tomasulo, D. (2018). I Feel Lost, I Can’t Keep My Pants on (I Feel Slutty) and Lonely. Psych Central. Retrieved on May 21, 2019, from https://psychcentral.com/ask-the-therapist/2016/01/22/i-feel-lost-i-cant-keep-my-pants-on-i-feel-slutty-and-lonely/
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