Receiving a mental health diagnosis will not hinder your opportunities. In fact, determining a diagnosis is often the first step in recovery. Once a diagnosis is made, a treatment plan can be developed and implemented.
You do not have to disclose physical or mental impairments to your employer unless you wish to ask for an accommodation. Accommodations are modifications to the job or job site that enable an individual with a disability to have an equal opportunity to complete their job. Under the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) an employee requesting an accommodation has to reveal their mental health condition to their employer. Disclosing this information to a supervisor is kept confidential by law. If you do not need an accommodation, then there is no obligation to disclose information about your mental health condition to your employer. You might want to, for other reasons, but the only time it is required is when requesting an official accommodation. You can learn more about disclosing your mental health condition at work at this website.
Your mother refuses to take you and your siblings to treatment yet she is currently receiving treatment. In order for her to have been prescribed medicine, she would had to have consulted a doctor. Perhaps she is not satisfied with her treatment. It might explain why she is reluctant to seek help for her own children.
Medicating mental health problems is often not enough. Many conditions require both medication and psychotherapy. Psychotherapy could help your mother a great deal, if she were open to it. It may be the missing element in her treatment protocol.
The best place for you to receive help, at this time, might be the college counseling center. Their services are free and typically high-quality. They can help you determine what might be wrong and develop a comprehensive treatment plan. College counseling centers typically provide short-term treatment. If longer term treatment is necessary, they can refer you to a mental health professional in your community.
Let me underscore the importance of seeking treatment and the likelihood of your overcoming OCD. OCD isn’t something that you should just live with or accept as your reality. It is a highly treatable condition. If you fully participate in treatment and work with a competent mental health professional, you should expect a full recovery. Anyone who suggests otherwise is simply wrong or misinformed.
Please take care.
Dr. Kristina Randle