It’s not clear from your letter what you are asking. You seem to be overly worried about losing your current partner. Something about him or the relationship is making you feel that way.
You’ll need to examine what, about him or you or the relationship, is making you worried. Try to think back to when the problem began and whether there was an event that precipitated your emotional shift.
If you need assistance determining what is wrong and how to fix it, consider counseling. Counseling is particularly helpful for emotional instability and relationship difficulties. Given the nature of the situation, you may only need short-term therapy to come to a resolution.
I wish that I could offer you more assistance, but I don’t have enough information to know what the problem is and what question you want me to answer. If you would like to write back and ask a more direct question, I will do my best to help. Please take care.
Dr. Kristina Randle