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Is My Friend in Love with Me?

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Im a bisexual guy and i have a male friend, we met couple weeks ago. Before we met i was sure that he’s heterosexual. One day we had some drinks together and he kissed my neck. I started to wonder but i didn’t mind too much. A week later, we drank again and he kissed my neck again. He licked my neck. He touched parts of me. He said things which includes love but he was like kidding. We even slow danced once. I cant decide if he’s bisexual, hetero but kidding, hetero but pervert. Please help me because I fell in love with him.

Is My Friend in Love with Me?

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This doesn’t sound like kidding at all. I appreciate you being able to ask such a delicate question, but I don’t think this is the time for guessing. I would have a serious conversation with your friend and don’t hold back. Talk to him about his behavior and your reaction to it and ask him what his intentions are. If this is going to be a good relationship, then why not start with honesty and trust.

Wishing you patience and peace,
Dr. Dan
Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral

Is My Friend in Love with Me?

Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

Dan Tomasulo Ph.D., TEP, MFA, MAPP teaches Positive Psychology in the graduate program of Counseling and Clinical Psychology at Columbia University, Teachers College and works with Martin Seligman, the Father of Positive Psychology in the Masters of Applied Positive Psychology (MAPP) program at the University of Pennsylvania. He is Director of the New York Certification in Positive Psychology for the Open Center in New York City and on faculty at New Jersey City University. Sharecare has honored him as one of the top 10 online influencers on the topic of depression. For more information go to: He also writes for Psych Central's Ask the Therapist column and the Proof Positive blog.

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Tomasulo, D. (2018). Is My Friend in Love with Me?. Psych Central. Retrieved on May 20, 2019, from
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