Thank you for your kind words about our service. Your question is a good one for us to respond to because many young adults around the world feel the tug to help their parents while needing to develop their independence. At 28, it is time for you to devote the bulk of your energy and resources to self care and growth. Your parents made their choices before you were in the picture and you have been a very loving and helpful son. But limiting your own growth in the service of being depleted by their needs doesn’t help anyone. It is time for you to be at the center of your life.
This doesn’t mean you have to cut off your connections altogether. But it does mean you have to limit what you give and how much. Don’t exhaust your life force on a situation that is draining and hasn’t improved much despite all your efforts.