My 8 year old step son has been ground for almost a year now, he will not behave for more than 2 days.
He steals whatever he can constantly, food, money, screws, lighters and just other random things.
He is very destructive, he has torn up a whole wall in his room and writes on his walls and put holes in his walls. Is very violent when he does not want to do something, kicking slapping, biting.
He also will eat things that are not food, pencils, pens, paper, wood, and clothes.
We have heard him multiple times talking to himself in different voices that were so odd we though some one else was in his room. He says that he wasn’t talking to anyone and did not even say anything.
He is not hygienic, he plays with his poop, smears it on the walls and on the toilet and has peed on the walls in the bathroom. He is not a competent talker, he either talks like a 3 year old or cannot really speak and says things like ummm ummm ummm when trying to tell someone a story or something that he had did, or even what he ate and keeps starting from the beginning and repeating himself.
He is extremely manipulative to try and get what he wants, to anyone.
He shows no feelings for other people, but is overly emotional when it comes to himself.
He is very bossy and mean to people who are mentally challenged, younger, or smaller, he also does this to pets. He does not have these problems in school and the teachers have never said a bad things about him.
We had taken him to a therapist and he has said that all of this is normal, a therapist was our last resort because we figured if everything that we have tried didn’t work it must be mental. The therapist is having us try things over and it is not working but he is insists that everything he is doing is normal and only focuses on the stealing. When talking to my step son he always says that “doesn’t know why” he did it or “because I’m bored” or “because life isn’t fair” I wanted to know if there was possibly something wrong with him and if we really need to switch therapist.