Thank you for writing us. To be honest there isn’t much here that seems valuable for continuing the relationship. If his best excuse is that he didn’t want you to get mad for finding out that he was talking to other girls, then what is he really saying? He’s not apologizing –he’s not saying he’s willing to change, he’s simply telling you that he was afraid he’d get caught: Not very convincing. I wouldn’t waste my time. If the best he can do is get defensive rather than trying to understand why you would be angry, it’s time to move on.