Please get out of this relationship. You’ve only been with him 2 months so you haven’t invested too much of your time or your love in him.
Relationships tend to continue the way they start. You’ve told me that he is controlling, suspicious and intrusive. He manipulates you with his hurt feelings and his anger. You don’t deserve this. No one does. Don’t waste your time trying to talk him out of his inappropriate behavior. If you succeed at all, it is unlikely to last.
Drop this relationship and make yourself available for someone who is going to trust you, cherish you, and respect your opinions and your privacy. This guy isn’t worth your time.
I wish you well.