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Relationship Confusion

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I am hesitant and I need help please help me, I knew a man before one year, he was so good with me, I loved him and I thought that he love me, but he left me and I didn’t hear any thing about him, I shocked because I waited a lot from him and I didn’t understand why he made that, I suffered for mush time and I could not know other boy, my friends speak that I must forget and live my life, when I start give chance to other man, he back, and he said that he had a lot of problems and he still want me, because I loved him and I made a lot for him and I gave him every thing,, I believed him, now I am with him but I am afraid and I expect every thing, when we speak about future,, I feel that he do not put plan for us,, really I feel so bad and I don’t know what to do,, specially when I remember that he has not work and he want to continue study, I am afraid if I keep waiting him after he will go like last time,, and to be honest I lose mush chances for marriage just for him, I know that I must do something, but what should I do!! To not blame my self!!!

Relationship Confusion

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Thank you for writing us here at Psych Central. While I am not sure how available psychotherapy would be to you in your country, I do think that you being in the presence of a third party who could help discuss these issues would be important. Perhaps there is someone from your religious community who could serve as a sounding board for these concerns. It sounds to me like there may be multiple issues that need to be sorted through. Having one person see you together as a couple would be helpful. Your physician also could be a good person to ask to help you find someone.

Wishing you patience and peace,
Dr. Dan
Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral

Relationship Confusion

Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

Dan Tomasulo Ph.D., TEP, MFA, MAPP teaches Positive Psychology in the graduate program of Counseling and Clinical Psychology at Columbia University, Teachers College and works with Martin Seligman, the Father of Positive Psychology in the Masters of Applied Positive Psychology (MAPP) program at the University of Pennsylvania. He is Director of the New York Certification in Positive Psychology for the Open Center in New York City and on faculty at New Jersey City University. Sharecare has honored him as one of the top 10 online influencers on the topic of depression. For more information go to: http://www.dare2behappy.com/. He also writes for Psych Central's Ask the Therapist column and the Proof Positive blog.

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Tomasulo, D. (2018). Relationship Confusion. Psych Central. Retrieved on March 19, 2019, from https://psychcentral.com/ask-the-therapist/2014/01/11/relationship-confusion/
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