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Out-of-Context Emotions

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I don’t often feel my emotions but when I do feel them they are in full force and usually out of context. For example, when bad things happen I have a minimal reaction but when small upsetting incidents occur I burst into uncontrollable tears. The same work for all of my other emotions, smaller events seem to provoke a disproportional reaction. I am a teenage girl, so I’m not sure if hormones play a role or if it points towards something else. I guess my question is, why are my emotions acting like they are?

Out-of-Context Emotions

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Of course it is hard to know for sure, but your body and hormones are in flux, and you’re just learning about your emotions and their intensity. One way to think about it is that when we suppress our feelings in one situation they may surface with a vengeance in another. In some ways it’s like holding a beach ball underwater for a long time. If we don’t learn to let the air out of it properly it’ll come roaring up to the surface when we least expect it.

If you don’t find it balancing out within the next couple of months, you may want to talk to your school counselor about finding ways to regulate this.

Wishing you patience and peace,
Dr. Dan
Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral

Out-of-Context Emotions

Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

Dan Tomasulo Ph.D., TEP, MFA, MAPP teaches Positive Psychology in the graduate program of Counseling and Clinical Psychology at Columbia University, Teachers College and works with Martin Seligman, the Father of Positive Psychology in the Masters of Applied Positive Psychology (MAPP) program at the University of Pennsylvania. He is Director of the New York Certification in Positive Psychology for the Open Center in New York City and on faculty at New Jersey City University. Sharecare has honored him as one of the top 10 online influencers on the topic of depression. For more information go to: He also writes for Psych Central's Ask the Therapist column and the Proof Positive blog.

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Tomasulo, D. (2018). Out-of-Context Emotions. Psych Central. Retrieved on March 21, 2019, from
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