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Overly Dependent on Boyfriend

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I always feel really lonely depressed and scared when I’m not with my boyfriend, although few months ago my boyfriend was asking other girls to meet him through social website, I confronted him about this and he said he was sorry and it was ages ago and he wouldn’t do it again but I don’t trust time still he goes out and turns his mobile off and I just feel scared and lonely. I cant ever sleep anymore I think about it all during the day and night and just cry, my boyfriend doesn’t understand and gets moody when I mention anything to him. I feel alone and don’t know how to trust my boyfriend again I love him so much and we have been going out for 1 year. Please help!!!

Overly Dependent on Boyfriend

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It may seem like your boyfriend is the only person you need to be with – but the truth is you need to have others in your life. This is true at 16 or 60 or 90. This is the time to develop other friendships. When we are so dependent on one other person for our happiness, it can make our lives miserable if we don’t get exactly what we need from them. That is why we have friends. With friends we get more connections. That helps when the person we love the most isn’t available.

I recommend you broaden your circle of friends and interests. This will help you with your feelings for your boyfriend.

Wishing you patience and peace,
Dr. Dan
Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral

Overly Dependent on Boyfriend

Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

Dan Tomasulo Ph.D., TEP, MFA, MAPP teaches Positive Psychology in the graduate program of Counseling and Clinical Psychology at Columbia University, Teachers College and works with Martin Seligman, the Father of Positive Psychology in the Masters of Applied Positive Psychology (MAPP) program at the University of Pennsylvania. He is Director of the New York Certification in Positive Psychology for the Open Center in New York City and on faculty at New Jersey City University. Sharecare has honored him as one of the top 10 online influencers on the topic of depression. For more information go to: He also writes for Psych Central's Ask the Therapist column and the Proof Positive blog.

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Tomasulo, D. (2018). Overly Dependent on Boyfriend. Psych Central. Retrieved on April 24, 2019, from
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