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My 4 yr old son killed one of our kittens yesterday. He said that he didn’t want him anymore. He wanted 4 cats, not 5. He’s had this thing with the number 4 for a few weeks now. He put a pillow over the cat and jumped on him. He is a very happy boy and we are a very loving family. We also love our pets and treat them like family. I stay home with him all day, so I don’t think he would have an attachment disorder. My husband and I are very worried. This is the first time something like this has happened. What should I do? We are just watching him closely now. I might also add that my husband is bipolar and has adhd. He has never hurt an animal because of it though.

My son killed a kitten

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This must have been a very difficult thing for you and your husband to cope with and it is certainly worthy of concern. This would be the time for an evaluation by a psychologist or psychiatrist to determine if your son simply used poor judgment, or if he needs to have treatment.

The fact that he has loving, concerned parents is the central ingredient in helping him. It is clear from what you have said that this is the case. The evaluation will help. I would look for professionals in your area that specialize in working with children.

Wishing you patience and peace,
Dr. Dan
Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral

My son killed a kitten

Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

Dan Tomasulo Ph.D., TEP, MFA, MAPP teaches Positive Psychology in the graduate program of Counseling and Clinical Psychology at Columbia University, Teachers College and works with Martin Seligman, the Father of Positive Psychology in the Masters of Applied Positive Psychology (MAPP) program at the University of Pennsylvania. He is Director of the New York Certification in Positive Psychology for the Open Center in New York City and on faculty at New Jersey City University. Sharecare has honored him as one of the top 10 online influencers on the topic of depression. For more information go to: He also writes for Psych Central's Ask the Therapist column and the Proof Positive blog.

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