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I think I’m losing feeling for my girlfriend

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Ok her and me been together for 11 months now. She’s talking to other guys even after I told her I didn’t like it. She tells me she stopped, but a few days later she giving her number to another guy. But she doesn’t wont me talking to another girl what-so-ever even though she keep talking to other guys. There’ll be a guy who come out of nowhere and say hi -and she’ll give him her number –but tell me she knows him –even though she doesn’t. She fights with me over her phone because she doesn’t wont me to see it. She even put a lock on it. One day I saw a pic of some guy’s body on it and she tells me she doesn’t know him. They’re so many other things too. I think I’m starting to lose feeling for her because of all this. What should I do.?

I think I’m losing feeling for my girlfriend

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Don’t waste your time trying to figure her out. Let her actions speak for themselves. You’re 18 and she couldn’t be clearer about the fact that she doesn’t honor your needs in the relationship. Tell her that you don’t like how she has been treating you and move on. You want a relationship with someone who knows how to be there for you. Your girlfriend has lost that ability.

Since you are still in school I would get some counseling from your school guidance counselor about this transition. Learn from this relationship, and find yourself with someone who has the emotional maturity to be in a committed relationship with you.

Wishing you patience and peace,
Dr. Dan
Proof Positive Blog @ PsychCentral

I think I’m losing feeling for my girlfriend

Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

Dan Tomasulo Ph.D., TEP, MFA, MAPP teaches Positive Psychology in the graduate program of Counseling and Clinical Psychology at Columbia University, Teachers College and works with Martin Seligman, the Father of Positive Psychology in the Masters of Applied Positive Psychology (MAPP) program at the University of Pennsylvania. He is Director of the New York Certification in Positive Psychology for the Open Center in New York City and on faculty at New Jersey City University. Sharecare has honored him as one of the top 10 online influencers on the topic of depression. For more information go to: He also writes for Psych Central's Ask the Therapist column and the Proof Positive blog.

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Tomasulo, D. (2018). I think I’m losing feeling for my girlfriend. Psych Central. Retrieved on March 18, 2019, from
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