Thank you for writing us. In the beginning of a relationship the boundaries and alignments that are needed to make the relationship work must be established. Be clear about what is okay, and what is not. If his texting bothers you be direct and let him know. Donâ€™t assume he has any idea of what will be important to you and what wonâ€™t. Let him know what your needs are, and then invite him to let you know what he expects out of the relationship.
The clearer you can be now, the better you can assess whether or not the relationship is viable.
Since this is your first year in college I would take advantage of the university counseling center to talk to someone about this as you are going through it. Friends are a great resource, but sometimes an objective opinion of a therapist can be very helpful.