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I am being bullied

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I am 40 and moved to a new place with my mother and elder sister. When they go to work some of the small boys living in the street used to bully me when I have a walk or buy something, they did that for month. The last time one of them beat me till I nearly cried. Also I was subject to bullying thru my life and at school. Now I feel afraid as general and from men and boys in particular. my mother and sister knew and they will take me to a psychotherapist for talking treatment. Is that all what I need?

I am being bullied

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I am sorry you are having so many issues in your neighborhood. I am not sure of the cultural differences that may exist when it comes to involving the authorities in your country. But I am going to recommend in addition to therapy you press charges against the bullies. Every study I have seen on this sort of behavior indicates that dealing with bullies directly with strong clear sanctions is what is necessary. Bullies target those they think can’t or won’t fight back. Therapy is good, but standing up for yourself with support from the authorities is what is needed.

Wishing you patience and peace,
Dr. Dan

I am being bullied

Daniel J. Tomasulo, PhD, TEP, MFA, MAPP

Dan Tomasulo Ph.D., TEP, MFA, MAPP teaches Positive Psychology in the graduate program of Counseling and Clinical Psychology at Columbia University, Teachers College and works with Martin Seligman, the Father of Positive Psychology in the Masters of Applied Positive Psychology (MAPP) program at the University of Pennsylvania. He is Director of the New York Certification in Positive Psychology for the Open Center in New York City and on faculty at New Jersey City University. Sharecare has honored him as one of the top 10 online influencers on the topic of depression. For more information go to: http://www.dare2behappy.com/. He also writes for Psych Central's Ask the Therapist column and the Proof Positive blog.

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Tomasulo, D. (2018). I am being bullied. Psych Central. Retrieved on March 18, 2019, from https://psychcentral.com/ask-the-therapist/2010/11/23/i-am-being-bullied/
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