Home » Ask the Therapist » How can I convince my husband to attend treatment?

How can I convince my husband to attend treatment?

Asked by on with 1 answer:

Q. My husband was diagnosed with bipolar and refuses to take medication due to he can not hold his license for his position at work. He has been with the company for 25 years – are they under any obligation to place him in a different position or will he be able to access his retirement pension with out penality – he is 50 years old. He says he is misdiagnoised – he is in complete denial because his job has provided us with a very comfortable life – we have a adult aspergers child and a teen bipolar and I have ADD – so our medication alone is $800 a month. He is also afraid to accept treatment because if he can not work at the same company we will lose our medical. Where can I go to get help – our therapist don’t have these answers.

How can I convince my husband to attend treatment?

Answered by on -


I am sorry to hear about your difficult situation. My advice in this situation would be to contact the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) to inquire about what your husband’s right’s are with regard to mental illness, taking medication and job related issues. There are laws in place, federal and state, that make it so he cannot be fired for simply taking psychiatric medications, or not being able to perform you job role due to a diagnosed mental illness. In other words, individuals cannot simply be fired because they have a mental illness. On the contrary, if your husband is having mental health symptoms, and he is displaying them at work and disrupting the work environment, and refusing treatment, this could have a deleterious impact on his job performance and possibly lead to him getting fired. In the latter scenario, your husband could be justifiably fired.

I would advise contacting the EEOC to inquire about your husband’s rights. Maybe once you and he learn more information and facts about what his rights are and what his employer is mandated to do in this situation, it may make it easier for your husband to take the medications that have been prescribed to him. I know this issue is complicated but I hope that this advice can help, even if just a little. Take care and please write again if you have any more questions.

How can I convince my husband to attend treatment?

Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW

Kristina Randle, Ph.D., LCSW is a licensed psychotherapist and Assistant Professor of Social Work and Forensics with extensive experience in the field of mental health. She works in private practice with adults, adolescents and families. Kristina has worked in a large array of settings including community mental health, college counseling and university research centers.

APA Reference
Randle, K. (2018). How can I convince my husband to attend treatment?. Psych Central. Retrieved on May 22, 2019, from
Scientifically Reviewed
Last updated: 8 May 2018
Last reviewed: By a member of our scientific advisory board on 8 May 2018
Published on Psych All rights reserved.