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Teens’ Bonds With Parents Can Impact Romantic Relationships

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Reviewed by John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on February 7, 2014

Teens' Bonds With Parents Can Impact Romantic RelationshipsIn new research, the University of Alberta’s  Dr. Matt Johnson found that the relationship between parents and teens — however stormy or peaceful — may influence whether those children are successful in romance, even up to 15 years later.

In the study, Johnson explores the complexities of the romantic ties that bind.

“Being aware of that connection may save a lot of heartache down the road,” according to Johnson, who reviewed existing data that was gathered in the United States over a span of 15 years.

Johnson’s findings, published in the Journal of Marriage and Family, revealed a “small but important link between parent-adolescent relationship quality and intimate relationships 15 years later,” Johnson said. “The effects can be long-lasting.”

Investigators discovered, perhaps not surprisingly, that good parent-teen relationships resulted in slightly higher quality of romantic relationships for those grown children years later.

However, the study also suggests a lesson in self-awareness when nurturing an intimate bond with a partner.

“People tend to compartmentalize their relationships; they tend not to see the connection between one kind, such as family relations, and another, like couple unions.

“But understanding your contribution to the relationship with your parents would be important to recognizing any tendency to replicate behavior — positive or negative — in an intimate relationship.”

“That doesn’t mean parents should be blamed for what might be wrong in a grown child’s relationship,” Johnson added.

“It is important to recognize everyone has a role to play in creating a healthy relationship, and each person needs to take responsibility for their contribution to that dynamic.”

Researchers based their findings on survey-based information from 2,970 people who were interviewed at three stages of life from adolescence to young adulthood, spanning ages 12 to 32.

Source: University of Alberta
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APA Reference
Nauert, R. (2014). Teens’ Bonds With Parents Can Impact Romantic Relationships. Psych Central. Retrieved on December 23, 2014, from http://psychcentral.com/news/2014/02/07/past-relationship-with-parents-should-not-influence-current-romance/65555.html